Stephanie Ericsson The White Lie Summary

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Author Stephanie Ericsson feels the need to lie, as the truth will often have negative consequences that she does not want to be faced with. She recognizes that the truth hurts her, but her lies hurt many others. Ericsson goes over the many different types of lies people tell. She starts with The White Lie; a small lie we tell people that smidges the truth just a little. But no matter how small you may think the lie is, it will leave a big impact on the person on the receiving end of the lie. Ericsson then moves onto Facades, which is to present oneself falsely. In a way, we all put on a Facade each day. It can be as small as putting on a suit to go to a business meeting when in reality you would rather wear your pajamas. Or it can be a big

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