Starbuck Observation

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Holiday spirt, hot chocolate and a variety of people to observe, my nonverbal analysis started out in Starbucks of Miami Springs. I was there at five o’clock to catch up with some friends and blend in with the crowd while I selected who to analyze. Diagonally from me, an empty table became occupied by two females, which appeared to be in their late twenties. My proxemics to them was ideal, the background noise and my social distance of five feet, limited my hearing and I couldn’t make out the topic of their conversation, leaving me to decipher their emblems and kinesics. For the purpose of this analysis, the two subjects will be known as person A and person B. The one sitting to the left, person A, was wearing casual clothes, the one to the right, person B, was wearing work attire (a blazer and a plain white shirt, with closed toed shoes). I placed a timer of ten minutes and set all of my …show more content…

My observation of the two girls at Starbucks allowed me to take ten minutes of my twelve hour day to stop and just observe and interpret these vague cues. My initial assessment of the two girl across from me was that they were friends catching up after a long day from work, as the clock ticked and they became more comfortable, their nonverbal cues showed me that they were more than friends, they are lovers. Taking the time to observe other people has shown me that verbal communication isn’t the only thing that I should be taking into consideration when getting to know an individual. A person usually reacts by instinct, the cognitive mind isn’t the one to cue the sincere smile or dishonest look in an individual’s face. Learning to pay attention to others affects displays, like facial expression and body movement could potentially get you out of a tough situations. After all, actions speak louder than

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