13. What is/was the effect of sibling position in the family (e.g., oldest, youngest, middle)? I am grateful to become a middle born because I do not have to have huge responsibilities like you do as a first-born. In my opinion, the first-born have to hold many roles to take care of their siblings and such. As a middle child, I can have the experience of having younger brother and also an older sister. It can teach me how to responsible and sensitive to my sibling’s need. 14. What were/are sibling relationships like? We are so close to each other as we always share almost anything to each other. I also realize that we always take care and protect each other since we were in school. I also believe that the family routines that being set by our parents such as eating and cooking together really help us to get closer to each other. 15. When a crisis hits, how …show more content…
What type of parenting style did your parents utilize? did you find the style functional Our parents raised us by using authoritarian parenting styles, no doubt. I think this is the case because I never thought that they were controlling at all even though they put some limit for our behavior. This parenting style really helps us to develop many positive traits and ability to express emotions. 24. What methods of punishment were you subjected to as a child? will you discipline your child(ren) in the same manner? The punishment that I really cannot forget is timeout because I really hate it. Even though I hate it I really think it is really helpful for me to stop doing any behaviors that they ask me to do. Thus, I will do this discipline method when raising my kids. 25. Describe your favorite family moment growing up. Favorite family moment growing up is by remembering how we value our time together. We spend our time on planning family vacation both local and abroad together. All the vacations that we went together leave so many good memories that make it one of the most favorites family moment for
While authoritarian parents have many structure and household rules, they don’t explain to their children the underlying reason for these rules.
I benefited from having authoritarian parents as they taught me about the importance of rules and boundaries, but there are more cons than pros for the authoritarian style. What I dislike most about this style is that my parents did not provide emotional support to me as I was growing up. They believed in setting standards, rules and regulations that were too punitive. My parents were too caught up in demanding complete obedience, and they did not take int...
Punish carefully. If children do something wrong, parents can punish them only when they make it clear that what happened and why they did it. Don’t punish children when other people are on the scene. Don’t punish them in the morning or in the evening. Don’t transfer their anger to children.
An individual’s discipline strategies can have a big impact on the type of relationship one has with their child. The various approaches to discipline can even influence a child’s mood and temperament in adulthood.
Researches have concluded that “Authoritarian parenting styles generally lead to children who are obedient and proficient, but they rank lower in happiness, social competence and self-esteem” (Cherry)....
I am grateful of being who I am as a big sister. As the middle child, I feel that my point of view is the best. I get the whole picture. Becoming a big sister again is something amazing. It is something that some people never get to experience. I feel lucky to have little siblings because I know that with my examples, they can become someone great. The opportunity to be older than someone else helped me become someone better. Some things are to never be forgotten and the memories that I have with and of my little brother and sister are examples of that. Although I am a lot older than my youngest sibling, it will never stop me from being a sister. I feel that it is my job to give the little ones advice and help lead them in the right direction in life. My feelings over this experience are indescribable. If there was anything that I could ever change, I wouldn’t change anything. Not even the dirty diapers I helped change or the staying up late nights with Mom. Thanks to them I always tell myself that I will never have kids until I know for sure what I am doing. I understand that there is a lot to it and I think that I will stick with just little siblings for now. Annoying yet sweet little sister and
One of the most striking differences is that of expected social behaviors. Authoritarian parents expect and require strict adherence to proper manners, often to an extreme! Demonstrating manners in all circumstances is a sign of obedience and respect within this parent-child relationship. This act of obedience may also be expressed in a formal style of communication rather than a casual style both to parents and others. “Yes Sir”, “No Sir”, “Please”, and “Thank You” are words of common... ...
Authoritarian-parents who are punitive and focus on gaining a child's obedience to parental demands rather than responding to the demands of the child.Authoritarian parenting styles give little to no options to a child. What the parent says goes. It is a rigid approach to raising children that may have been most effective in times of great famine or toil. It was used most commonly in large, traditional families in which the father was the patriarch, and everyone else was called to follow his command. Times have changed greatly since. Doctors see a problem with this approach in modern times,it creates a distance between parent and child in which the child doubts the parent's love for him. It is based on punishment, which can easily create anger.
Authoritarian parents, show very little acceptance, have very high expectations of their children and are extremely controlling. These parents are strict, and use a prohibitive and punishment method. According to a research done by Kimberly Kopko from Cornell University, it “reveals that adolescents of authoritarian parents learn that following parental rules and adherence to strict discipline is valued over independent behavior. As a result, adolescents may become rebellious or dependent” (2). The adolescents who come to be rebellious may showcase hostile behaviors, while those who are passive are likely to stay relying on their parents (2).
Authoritarian parenting, is low on warmth/nurturance, harsh, and strict on discipline, and high on expectation. Parents instruct and order, they do not consider the children 's opinion as a group, and discourage verbal give-and-take. With this parenting style, children are more susceptible to antisocial peer pressure during adolescence, a time when peer influence is the greatest. Boys in this category have the highest level of violence. Teenagers become less self-reliant, persistent, socially poised, and have lower self-esteem.
Childhood discipline is a very important task to do as a parent or parent figure. Childhood discipline needs to be done for these three reasons, to get your child to respect you and for you to respect your child, make your child understand what they did wrong, and make your child realize no matter how old they are you will still discipline them. Disciplining your child is fundamental to then parent-child dynamic. Discipline is about choices and consequences. When getting disciplined your children learn how to be responsible, honest, kind, and sharing people. While they follow the rules set in place by their parents they have the chance to grow up to be well-behaved and respectful individuals. When your child disobeys you your consequences should encourage your child to stop negative behaviors and make positive choices (How to Discipline).
The punishment gets more intense when the child keeps breaking a rule. Some children don’t fully understand why they shouldn’t break a rule that’s why I feel that some continue to keep breaking a rule after told not to. In schools today some teachers keep a track of the children behaviors. Some have a chart which is red, yellow, and green every child starts out on the green part but when some children start to break rules the teacher will move a clip up to yellow which means they have a warring and if they keep breaking the rule they will be moved up to red which means they are getting a phone call home. When most children get up to yellow they start to act good so that they can me moved back down to green. I have seen this when I use to help teach a 2nd and 3rd grade class and this does really work for some kids. For children internal control they start to monitor their self’s and you as parents and teachers you hope that the children can and will develop their own behavior. For children’s guidance approach is when the teachers help the children to understand the rules, why to not break the rules and what will be the outcome if a rule is broken. It’s hard for some of the teachers or parents to teach their children to not break a rule because all the child will do is continue to keep breaking the rules and that puts stress on the teachers and parents. In the authoritative style which is self-control for the children. It really god to teach children to have self-control. You start to let the children make decisions on different stuff when they are little starting a three years old. For example you should let the children to decide on what they want either a cookie or an apple. You can also have them at ages four and up to start letting them decide on what they want to wear for that day. By having the children do this at an early age they will start to
Children from authoritarian tend to have more trouble controlling their emotions (Chang 2003; Wang et
Children raised and punished with respect will be great kids. Parents should treat their kids with respect. Kids are young and they look up to their parents and other adults. They imitate us. If the parent back-talks the McDonalds drive through person. There is a bigger chance the child will back talk another adult because they have seen there parent do so. Respect your kids, if they want to dress themselves for school let them and do not tell them they need to change. If the child wants to be a doctor, go buy him or her a doctor play kit, if they want to work at McDonalds, its just a phase or let them work there in high school that’s more money in your pocket. Respect plays a big key in raising and punishing a child. Treat everyone around you with respect, if it’s a t...
A child's behavior is seen by his or her outward actions, seeking attention from surrounding individuals causing chaos due to insecurities. The behavior of a corporal punished child establishes self-harm. Corporal punishment produces a child to create pain upon his or her body, leaving scars for life. Children often aspire to find a way to cope with their problems; turning to drugs, battling suicide, or even choosing to abuse their own children when they become adults. Behavioral problems tend to cause a child to have long-term illnesses as they develop throughout life. An illness of the mind and body can affect the establishment of a relationship, producing negative outcomes on marriages. I believe that parents should shower their children with love and care, giving the best method of positive enforcement. A way to correct a child without physical abuse is to use some form of timeout for the child instead of hands on. Using an alternative such as timeout will allow a child to realize the parents' care for them without having to harm them in any