Sexual Abuse Trauma

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Sexual abuse is all too common today, believe it or not. Most can’t come to grasp the full effects that normal abuse causes, let alone the effects of sexual abuse. Many question: “why did the ‘victim’ let it happen?” or “Well, if they don’t live with the abuser why continue to go back?”. The reader will soon know the affects sexual abuse has mentally and physically, and the steps someone takes to attempt getting over the trauma. This paper will include my personal experience, as well as others’. So many people know so little about sexual abuse. Surprisingly, the lack of knowledge ranges from how common it is, to what goes on in the “victim’s” head during and after the trauma.
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The way one views trust after the trauma changes the most, in most people’s opinions. Many, if not all, people that go through sexual abuse find it takes an extreme amount of time to re-adjust and cope with certain anxieties. Anyone who goes through any type of trauma experiences PTSD; which is an abbreviation of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. PTSD is extremely difficult to cope with for several reasons; hallucinations, anger, depression, social anxiety, flashbacks, night terrors, uncontrollable thoughts of the event, and haphephobia which is the fear of being touched (Joyful Heart Foundation, Effects of Sexual …show more content…

It’s extremely difficult to open up to someone new and share secrets without having any trust with that someone. To have a counselor, you have to “click” with them. Meaning you kind of have to think the same way, react to certain things the same, etcetera. You also have to form a bond of trust with them. With a victim of sexual abuse, trust is hard to come by, so they may go through several counselors or therapists before they find the one that helps them the most. This was a big problem in my case. As a young girl I trusted way too much, thought the world was an amazing, unharmful place, up until I turned thirteen. After that, and the abuse, I didn’t understand what trust was. I locked myself away, closed the blinds and curtains; I barely ate or ate too much. I became extremely depressed, and my first counselor wasn’t helping. My first counselor was more of a child’s therapist; this didn’t work out so well considering I was now extremely mature for my age. We often butted heads, and had hateful and hostile moments. This is a prime example of why some counselors don’t work

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