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Tuesdays With Morrie, by Mitch Albom is a true story, that teaches the readers valuable life lessons from the dying Morrie Schwartz. Morrie teaches Mitch several lessons, but there is one lesson that is indirectly taught in the story, selflessness. Although selflessness was not one of the main topics covered by Morrie, the reader can clearly learn about the importance of selflessness through Morries full time caregiver, Connie. Connie, in Tuesdays with Morrie, can be seen as an angel of mercy. Her immense selflessness and compassionate personality allowed her to help remove so many of the physical burdens that Morrie faced with ALS. Connie resembled a mother figure to the dying Morrie, as he became fully dependent on her for most of his physical …show more content…
Her caring and compassionate nature is what drove her to be so helpful to Morrie. “Connie answered the bell. Normally buoyant, she had a drawn look on her face. Her hello was softly spoken. ‘How’s he doing?’ I said. ‘Not so good.’ She bit her lower lip. ‘I don’t like to think about it. He’s such a sweetman, you know?’ I knew. ‘This is such a shame.’ ” (Albom) Connie’s care for Morrie is shown in this quote from the story. Connie’s compassionate personality is proven when she states “ I don’t think to think about it.” Connie cares for Morrie so much that she does not even want to think about the fact that Morrie is struggling. Compassion is clearly shown here, her sympathy justifies her compassion. Connies compassion can be explained by the quote “A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle.”(James Keller) This quote explains the idea that helping another can never hurt you, and through the evidence of Connie’s compassion, it is shown that she lives her life exactly like this. Connie’s personality consists of an enormous amount of caring and …show more content…
Babies fully depend on someone else to care for them, unable to do anything for themselves. As we grow up and become adults, we become independent, we no longer depend on others to do things for us. Once we start to die though, we lose our independence. We become fully depended on others in order to survive, due to the many disabilities that come near death, with illness, like in Morries case. A perfect example of this can be Morrie. He explains it himself, “It’s like going back to being a child again. Someone to bathe you. Someone to lift you. Someone to wipe you. We all know how to be a child. It’s inside all of us. For me, it’s just remembering how to enjoy it.”(Albom) Morrie explains that as he got older, he became more like a baby again. Babies require a mother, or someone who resembles the care of a mother, which is why in his fight with ALS, he gained a mother figure to care of him, Connie. She clearly resemble the care and selflessness of a mother to morrie in his final
Mother always blames the girl because Connie very often admires in front of a mirror. Also, mother constantly puts the older sister June as an example for Connie and it leads to alienation of the girl. Connie's father spends not enough time at home because he is busy on the work and when he returned to family, he just had supper, read newspapers and went to sleep, as a result, Connie feels a lack of parental attention. There is not enough love and care about each other in their family; therefore, they are
After all the conflict in dialogue and suspense of the unknown characters and actions of the character though out the story “Where Are You Going, Where Have You been” by Joyce Carol Oates “Listen to your heart above all other voices.” A quote by Marta Kagan that shows us how important it really is to not lsiten to the other voices around do what you think is right. If Connie would have known, and listened to this quote she may have been able to bring herself to calling the
Morrie is getting worse and “Nightline”wants to have another interview with him before he passes. Morrie thinks his death is going to be soon so he wants to get the interview over with. His aphorism is significant because when we’re in bed we’re not doing anything but laying down or sleeping. We’re not out being active we’re doing nothing like a dead person. Love to me means never giving up on someone and always being there for them. Love is a strong word because most of the people who say the word don’t mean it. Love is always being taken for granted because of how people today abuse the word. It’s important in our world because if we didn’t have love most of us wouldn’t be happy or alive. Morrie talks about how memories are what keeps a person alive. He says if we can still hear a person’s voice when they’re not around we won’t forget them.
What is compassion? It has two components. One component of compassion means to put yourself in another person’s shoes, and ask yourself, What if I were that person? How would I feel? So, compassion means to develop an awareness of the suffering in another person. Another component of compassion is self-compassion, having compassion doesn’t always have to be putting everyone else before you, sometimes compassion can mean putting yourself first. Throughout generations, compassion has played an important role in many people, it’s a natural instinct within all of us. We show compassion towards our loved ones, when confronted with someone in pain, we
Connie is only concerned about her physical appearance. She can be described as being narcissistic because "she had a quick, nervous giggling habit of craning her neck to glance into mirror or checking other people's faces to make sure her own was all right" (Oates 148). Connie wants her life to be different from everyone else's in her family. She thinks because she is prettier, she is entitled to much more. She wants to live the "perfect life" in which she finds the right boy, marries him, and lives happily ever after. This expectation is nothing less than impossible because she has not experienced love or anything like it. She has only been subjected to a fantasy world where everything is seemingly perfect. This is illustrated in the story when Connie is thinking about her previous encounters with boys: "Connie sat with her eyes closed in the sun, dreaming and dazed with the warmth about her as if this were a kind of love, the caresses of love, and her mind slipped over onto thoughts of the boy she had been with the night before and how nice he had been, how gentle, the way it was in movies and promised in songs" (151).
Connie's character plays a big role in what ultimately happens to her. Connie is a vain girl that thinks the way you look is everything. She plays the stereotypical part for girls in today's society. She thinks that as long as you are pretty and dress a certain way then you are everything. This comes across when Oates writes "Connie thought that her mother preferred her to June because she was prettier" (980). By flaunting her looks she could easily give a guy like Arnold Friend perverted ideas about her. It could make them see her as easy, which he did.
According to kids data center, “24,444,000 kids leave with a single parent.” Morrie’s biological mother died when he was eight. Being the only english speaker, Morrie, read the telegraph first and was the one to tell his family that his mother had passed. This was a very hard time for Morrie. Morrie said on page eighteen ”Accept the past as the past, without denying it or discarding it.” Morrie had to accept at a young age that people come then go and that he couldn't change anything about it. His father wouldn't let him talk about his biological mother which is explaining the second part of the quote, he decided it was better to talk about your hardships. He decided that you shouldn't try to ignore it or act like it never happened. In the book, Morrie cries over his dead mother as an elderly man. He still allows himself to feel deeply rooted emotions even after it happened many years ago. His mother's death also made Morrie very sympathetic when hearing about other people’s pain. Morrie can relate to their pain so he understands their tremendous distress. This is one reason why Morrie is immensely caring. He knows people can have a lot of pain even if they try not to show it, so he shows everyone love. This is why he says “What’s wrong with being second?” because he believes everyone is entitled to the same love. This is shown in the book throughout Morrie’s and Mitch’s friendship as adults. Losing his mother at a young age
Through an intimate maternal bond, Michaels mother experiences the consequences of Michaels decisions, weakening her to a debilitating state of grief. “Once he belonged to me”; “He was ours,” the repetition of these inclusive statements indicates her fulfilment from protecting her son and inability to find value in life without him. Through the cyclical narrative structure, it is evident that the loss and grief felt by the mother is continual and indeterminable. Dawson reveals death can bring out weakness and anger in self and with others. The use of words with negative connotations towards the end of the story, “Lonely,” “cold,” “dead,” enforce the mother’s grief and regressing nature. Thus, people who find contentment through others, cannot find fulfilment without the presence of that individual.
Being sexualized by the boys around her, Connie is self-conscious and finds her worth in beauty. The story even states, “She knew she was pretty and that was everything” (Oates 422). She is concerned about her appearance and what others think of her because she has been taught that she lacks any value outside of physical beauty norms. Arnold Friend, even tells Connie, “...be sweet like you can because what else is there for a girl like you but to be sweet and pretty and give in?” (Oates 432). Between this coaxing and the consistent message about the importance of beauty, Connie is nearly forced to conform to this mentality, which displays the lack of respect for young females as human beings. This in turn leads women to self-degradation as they are consistently viewed as sexual
When approached by Arnold Friend at first, she was skeptical but was still charmed by him. As she began to feel uneasy, Connie could have used her intuition to realize that he was trouble. Once she had been engaged by Arnold, her life was over. The influences on Connie and her lack of instilled reasoning led to her down fall. Her family’s fragmented nature was echoed in her actions; consequently, she was unable to communicate with her parents, and she was never was able to learn anything of significance. She felt abandoned and rejected, because no one took the initiative to teach her how to make good decisions. Connie was unable to mature until she was faced with death and self sacrifice. In the end, her situation made it difficult for her to think and reason beyond the position she was in. By not being able apply insight, she fell into Arnold Friends lure. Misguidance by the parents strongly contributed to Connie’s
Morrie teaches that accepting death is okay and one should not fight it. Morrie’s opinion on the topic is that once one fully realizes that one is going to die one fully appreciates life and everything they have. One is fully alive. Morrie gives a lesson about death in this quote “ Once you learn how to die, you learn how to live” (Albom 82). i agree with it because if I knew I was going to die, I would be very appreciative of life and not material things, Death is a topic that i question about a lot. Why does it happen to good people more than
Connie’s clothes and infatuation with her own beauty symbolize her lack of maturity or knowing her true self, which in the end enables her to be manipulated by Arnold Friend. Connie was enamored with her own beauty; in the beginning of the story Oates states that Connie “knew
However, on a deeper level, we all have a Giver of sorts in our lives, and that we all have people who pass on memories and stories of what life was like before us. She said that her mother was her “Giver” and she was the “Receiver” during her mother’s last days. She would sit with her mother and all her mother wanted to do was tell her stories of her life.
Tuesdays with Morrie is an uplifting book about humanity, the goodness in the world. It is about an elderly man, who is aware of the fact that he is dying, who is trying to live the best life he possibly can. This book mainly revolves around the idea of humanity, instead of inhumanity. At one point in the novel, Morrie Schwartz states, “The most important thing in life is to learn to give out love, and to let it come in,” (Albom 52). When one reads this he might take away the idea that Schwartz means to love, never hate; he is not wrong when he says this, people should be kind, or humane, to each other always. That is a central theme in this novel, love. Morrie Schwartz also states at one point that people might not think they deserve love, but they do. A man, or woman, might not want to let love in so he will not become soft, but love makes him soft and love is so worth it (Albom 52). Morrie Schwartz likes to pull things from all kinds of faith to help him make sense of the world, at one point he references the Buddhist belief that every morning there is a bird on your shoulder that you ask if you are going to die and the bird will answer either yes or no (Albom 85). So Morrie Schwartz never loses his faith, he uses anecdotes from all different faiths to try and make sense of the world. Upkeep of faith is something that does not happen in Night simply because the lack
Tuesdays with Morrie, written by Mitch Albom, is a story of the love between a man and his college professor, Morrie Schwartz. This true story captures the compassion and wisdom of a man who only knew good in his heart and lived his life to the fullest up until the very last breath of his happily fulfilled life. When Mitch learned of Morrie’s illness, the began the last class of Morrie’s life together and together tried to uncover “The Meaning of Life.” These meetings included discussions on everything from the world when you enter it to the world when you say goodbye. Morrie Schwartz was a man of great wisdom who loved and enjoyed to see and experience simplicity in life, something beyond life’s most challenging and unanswered mysteries. Morrie was a one of a kind teacher who taught Mitch about the most important thing anyone can ever learn: life. He taught Mitch about his culture, about trust, and perhaps most importantly, about how to live.