Search For A Soul Mate Analysis

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Attraction is instant and love develops over time. In order to make real love last, both partners must put in the effort, become fearless, and take things slow.
In order to find one’s soulmate, one needs to put in an effort to make the initial attraction last. People need to realize that love does not happen right away, and effort needs to be fulfilled. If one is fearful, love will not come to them.
Romantic love is one that effort is put in constantly. In the article “Search for a Soul Mate, or Love the one You’re With?,” by Karen S. Peterson, she argues, “a deep bond develops only after years of working to make a relationship last” (1). Soul mates are not just found miraculously. In order for one to find a working relationship, you have to both put in equal effort. The more effort one puts into their relationship, the better off the relationship will be. Soulmates develop …show more content…

For example, if one is so afraid to find love that he dodges every person that comes into his path, he will end up sleeping alone. If one is constantly fearful of having a broken heart, and never takes a risk, one will never allow themselves to find love. According to Arthur C. Brooks in his article, “Taking Risks in Love,” he states “the opposite of love is fear” (2). In order to find love, one must take the risk and lose all fear of failure.
Love does not happen right away, but rather over time. Feelings for a person develop and deepen over time. One has to go through hardships together in order to earn respect for one another. The longer one is with someone, the chances are that one’s relationship is compatible and will last. One must get to know one another before jumping into intimacy. One has to be emotionally and physically attracted to their partner and in order to figure that out, it will take time. According to John Gray in his article, “Stage 1: Attraction,” “the blending together of male and female must be done in gradual stages”

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