Romeo And Juliet Parents Analysis

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Parents are supposed to support their child no matter what happens. When making decisions, their children should have their own opinion and do what they think is best. Parents can’t force their child to do things they want them to do. In the book Romeo and Juliet, Lord Capulet is frustrated with Juliet because she wants to marry Romeo. Romeo is part of the Montague family who are rivals of Juliet’s family, the Capulets. Lord Capulet doesn’t want her to marry Romeo, because he wants her to marry Paris instead. Lord Capulet shows his true colors when Juliet disobeys him and refuses to listen to his commands. Juliet’s father did not truly love Juliet in the story because he just cared for his family’s reputation, he did not focus on Juliet, and he failed to support Juliet.
Lord Capulet only cares for himself and his family’s reputation. He is worried that if Juliet marries Romeo, she would become a Montague. He doesn’t want the Capulet family chain to be broken. He chooses to save his reputation rather than choosing Juliet’s decision. He wants her to marry the “best”, …show more content…

When Juliet opened up to her parents with how she feels about the situation, her father got very upset and angry. Lord Capulet didn’t want to accept what his own daughter wanted. He called her names and said how he felt about her going against him. This led to verbal abuse and scoldings towards his own daughter that he doesn’t love. In Romeo and Juliet, Lord Capulet yells “Disobedient wretch! Hang Thee, young baggage! Or never after look at me in the face. Speak not, reply not, do not answer me!” (Shakespeare 167.) Juliet had to experience verbal abuse from her own father. Because of her father’s foul language, Juliet was depressed and thinking of killing herself. No one should ever experience this. She couldn’t stand having a wedding with Paris, who she never loved. Juliet truly loved Romeo, she killed herself after finding out that Romeo

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