Resting Bitch Face

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Language is an extremely important tool for communication and can act as a means of asserting one’s identity. There are many different forms of language. It can be the actual language you speak, the words you choose while you speak, or even the way you carry yourself on a day-to-day basis. Body language can be a very difficult thing to control in certain social situations and can cause other people to assume things about you. This can be either a good or a bad thing. If your body language and natural facial expressions look welcoming, people will have positive thoughts about you. If you look like you’d rather be anywhere else but where you are, people will think you’re not the nicest person and will tend to keep their distance. Both of these …show more content…

Everyone knows that your body language can cause others to form a certain belief about you. This can be a huge issue for certain people. Many people look bored or angry without even knowing it. They could be having the best day ever, but their face looks like they want to kill someone. This is called “Resting Bitch Face” or “RBF.” RBF can be a serious problem for certain people because they are constantly getting pegged for being an unpleasant person even if they aren’t one at all. In my classes, I’m always asked if I’m okay or if I’m mad at someone because of my facial expressions. With those questions, I reply, “Yeah, it’s just my face.” Because of how many times this has occurred, I try to manipulate my facial expressions and try to make …show more content…

It is common for some people to form a certain opinion about someone simply based on what they’ve seen or what they’ve heard. The problem with this is that you can’t determine what kind of person someone is by just looking at their body language. Going back to RBF, strangers will look at me and come to the wrong conclusion. There are many instances where I became friends with someone and they told me that when they first met me they thought I was going to be mean just because of my facial expressions. More often than not, people will look at a person and will instantly form an opinion about them, without even speaking to them at all. This happened to Elizabeth Jones in “You Say ‘Hispanic,’ I saw Latino.” She has been described as “Hispanic” plenty of times because she comes from a Spanish-speaking country and is bilingual in English and Spanish. However, she feels this is an incorrect conclusion and takes issue to the term. Jones argues, “Hispanic says you’re a division of Spain, but I’m from Latin America, specifically Central America.” According to the article, she looks black is from a part of Costa Rica whose mix of ethnicities includes Jamaicans. Jones said, “‘Hispanic’ doesn’t encompass anything about the Jamaican and Indian parts of my background...For me, Latina tells you more about my heritage and culture.” No part of her is from Spain, so why describe her as

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