Research Paper On Understanding Identity

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Jessica Baeza: Response Paper 2-September 28, 2014
1. Understanding Identity
a. Identities that are created through communication are identities that you communicate to others. They are identities that you express about yourself while you are communicating with others. It is also how other people see you through your actions, ideas, and thoughts. It is how we define ourselves through our communication with others and how our communication defines us (Martin & Nakayama, 2011.) When I am communicating with a stranger, my identity is as a Mexican American. When I communicate with a friend, my identity is as a kind and caring friend. When I communicate with a teacher, advisor, other student, or professor, I am identified as a student. When I communicate …show more content…

Identities that are dynamic are identities that are always changing through our experiences and communication (Martin & Nakayama, 2011.) One of my dynamic identities is my ethnic identity. When I lived in Mexico, Spanish was my only language and I only communicated with the Mexican community. Moving to the United States, I communicated with mostly only American citizens that spoke English. I had to adapt and learn the language, English, and learn to communicate with the new culture.
f. Identities that are developed in different ways in different cultures are cultures learned through your culture (Martin & Nakayama, 2011.) My Mexican culture has taught me that family is the most important thing in my live. I depend on all my family and trust in each and every one of them. I am really close to all my family and even my extended family. Especially now that I am a mother, I hope to aspire that value in my daughter’s life.
g. Since we all learn and develop different identities trying to communicate with people of different identities is difficult and has its implications. We often try to communicate with others the way we would communicate with ourselves. In order to interact with other cultures and identities, we must learn those identities and learn to adapt to those other identities. In order to have successful intercultural communication, we must accept our differences but discover our similarities, as …show more content…

I chose to pick the TV show scene “How I Met Your Mother,” Season 8: episode 23. All throughout the show, Ted, the male character, had been relying on the universe to give him signs about the future and his future love life. Robin, the female character, had always thought Ted was dumb for looking for signs. Robin lets herself find her our destiny. In this scene, Robin and Ted are at the park where Robin is looking for her locket. Years before she had buried her locket in the park for when she got married. When she was finally engaged, she looked for that locket for hours and asked for Ted to help but they cannot find it anywhere. Robin finally gives up and states that maybe it is a sign from the universe telling her not to get married. This scene has five important intercultural communication components; identities created through communication, identities created in spurts, identities of different cultures, gender identity, and national identity. It has identities created through communication because Robin knows how to identify Ted, as a believer in the universe and destiny, through their friendship. Ted identifies Robin as a skeptic. Identities created in spur are in this excerpt because Robin finally realizes that maybe she had been wrong all along and should believe in signs from the universe, especially considering something as important as her wedding. The scene incorporates the identities of different cultures and national identity because Robin as a Canadian and

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