Reflection Paper On Trauma

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Trauma is something that I believe we all experience, either personally and/or family or friend. I feel that it is important that an individual need to take care of themselves. If this does not occur, then the individual will suffer on physical and mental standpoint. For me personally, I have experienced trauma in many different aspects. To name a couple, at the age of 9, I lost my mother to a drunk driving accident, and I am also a survivor of abuse. This has caused many issues for me growing up. Triggers that I have learned affect me is when I deal with someone that has alcoholic problem, in which they are driving behind the wheel. Though, I do get a little disturbed when I hear about children getting abused, it does not affect me …show more content…

Though I do currently see people that suffer from alcoholism, I understand that it is a disease. Though I may not agree with their choices, I understand that not having the proper coping skills is what can lead an individual to this particular lifestyle. I personally do not drink on a regular basis. I will have a drink or two every now and then. For example, I have a bottle of Kahlua that I purchased close to two years ago. If I do decide to go out with friends, I would rather be the designated driver to ensure that everyone makes it home …show more content…

When I find that I am not take care of myself, I find that I have to take a step back and regroup. Many times I do this by taking a day for me. Whether it be getting my hair and nails done. I may also go shopping and get a new outfit. Take me out of my normal element. During the summer months, I will let my husband know that I want to go for a ride on the motorcycle. In which we ride all day long, which helps me clear my mind and regroup. When I am affected by these feelings, I tend to turn to my co-workers and/or my supervisor for some guidance. I have a relationship with many of my co-workers, where I feel comfortable to discuss the issues that I am having with patients. Though, I have support at home from my husband, I try not to discuss my job with him. Due to him not being a social worker, I do not feel that he will truly understand my feelings. I would rather turn to other social workers for support and guidance. At this time in my life, trying to juggle school, work, and a personal life, I feel that my self-care is sufficient. Though I would like to have more time to see friends or even travel to see family, I know and understand that this is only a small sacrifice in order to better my life and get closer to my career goal. Another thing that I try to make time for is my husband and dog. Spending time with them is the best part of my day, which I can relax and not think about my

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