Recognize The Siren Song Of Self-Justification By David Tarvis

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We all set expectations for ourselves, the standards are different yet they are made by everyone whether it is low or high expectations. Briefly, cognitive dissonance is a psychological concept that connects to one’s own expectations, it is when someone has two conflicting thoughts that could be for instance; the way you view yourself. Cognitive dissonance and one’s perspective profoundly influences why many people don't recognize that they're not meeting the standards they set for themselves. Cognitive dissonance protects one’s self-esteem and as people, one does not like to admit their mistakes. In addition, it reduces regret and embarrassment which gives people an optimistic outlook. Although there are benefits, unfortunately there are also costs. For instance, once someone has …show more content…

As Tarvis says in his article, "...Recognize the siren song of self-justification"(10). Tarvis claims in his thought-provoking article the consequences of using self-justification for negative actions. Not being aware, you can lead yourself to a dead end with self-justification, like his example of the "siren song." Siren songs are part of a Greek mythology where creatures lured people on ships with their songs and lead people to their deaths. To elaborate on cognitive dissonance and what it does to a person, if one contradicts their actions with their beliefs, then tries to justify it, the consequences are a dead end, such as Tarvis mentioned the “siren song”(10).

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