Pre Divorce Counseling Paper

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Introduction
This paper is about Counseling on the verge of divorce and divorce is something that we don’t want to think about or even consider. Moreover it is the last option in any marriage. That it can brings great pain like sorrow, depression.ans any things that we cannot think that can happen. It about what is divorce counseling, how God speaks about divorce. also it tells what is pre divorce counseling.
Definition
Divorce counseling is a form of relationship therapy designed for married couples on the verge or dealing with the aftermath of permanent separation. Divorce is a serious legal procedure that affects not just the separated couple, but also other members of their family. Divorce is quite prevalent in different parts of …show more content…

Some of them cannot afford counseling, some simply do not believe in its benefits, but marriage therapy is proven to work and has saved lot of relationships. The best thing for a couple is to see a therapist right after the problems occur. If couples therapies do not work and they still need to separate, then the therapist itself will suggest the divorce and continue with the pre divorce counseling.
What to expect from pre divorce counseling?
Pre divorce counseling is done with both spouses present and after the time spent in the counselor office, you can expect:
1. Better communication between partners in general. Very often couples cannot even talk to each other, so the therapy among the other things will help them make a normal conversation.
2. Peaceful and civilized talk about possible problems; Learning to communicate with each other will help to prepare for the divorce process. Even if it is something that no one wants to do, it must be done, so why not do it in peace.
3. Finding the best way for the well-being of the children. Children come first, and even if parents cannot work out their issues, the therapist will make them try a little harder for the …show more content…

Discernment counseling involves sessions working with the couple together and each partner separately. The first session is two hours and the following ones or hours. After establishing, by separate phone calls, where each partner is on the divorce decision and interest in discernment counseling, and doing domestic violence and coercion screen, the first session begins by exploring three narratives the divorce narrative what has gone wrong, the repair narrative how they have tried to fix things and a possible reconciliation narrative six months of all out effort to see if the marriage can be healthy and good for both of

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