Pick Up Lines Research

Women will go on and on about how much they hate pickup lines but personal experiences show that they really do work.

The Different Types of Pickup Lines

Pick up artists report that there are three main types of pick up lines. The first and simplest to use is the direct pick up line which makes your intentions clear from the start. The benefits of using a direct pick up line is that it saves both parties a lot of time by coming clean early on why it is that you are talking to the person without the need for subterfuge. Women love such direct openers because it shows that the man using it is confident and knows that he wants. The downside to direct pick up lines is that some women can't handle such a direct approach and it only really works on women are looking for long-term commitments. An example of a successful direct pick up line is "I'd like to get to know you". On the other-hand, telling her all of the dirty things that you want to do to her as an opening line is likely to get you slapped.

Indirect pickup lines are the tools of men who are looking to get laid immediately. Think of it as a sideways approach that you would use to get close to a lion. By coming at your target sideways, you are considered to be less of a threat and by the time your target realizes your true intentions, it is

too late for her to stop you. Indirect pick up lines such as "What do you think about this store?" are great ways to start a conversation with your target without making her defensive.

The third class of pick up lines are the cute and cheesy pick up lines such as "Your lips are so lonely...would they like to meet mine?" These are pick up lines with the lowest success rates however they do have their uses. People who are mentally tired are more receptive to cheesy pick up lines so save these for the morning hours in a nightclub when your targets are tired and have little else to choose from since the prime catches already left with their warm bodies for the night.

Whatever your chosen pick up line, remember that women prefer not to know that their being seduced. They like to feel that whatever happened happened naturally. The nature of all women is to be chased by and eventually surrendering to a carefree and confident man therefore they want their seductions to be covered in a mysterious mist of uncertainty.

Cheesy Pick Up Lines Really Do Work

Pickup lines that are humorous and cheesy are likely to get you curved however they will make the woman in question more likely to rate you as a sociable guy with a good sense humor, the kind of traits that they look for in a man for a one night stand.

The success of your chosen pick up line is down to what your target is looking for. They recognize men who use cheesy and brass pickup lines such as "Those tights would look so much better in between my teeth" as very humorous but not intelligent at all. Humor is good for a one-night stand however if the woman is looking for a more long-term engagement she's going to want to hear something smarter as your opening

statement.

Therefore the first step in delivering a successful pickup line is to choose your target appropriately. If you are working on getting a horny stripper back to your place then hit her with lamest pickup line that you can muster. She'll eat it right up and be back at yours before you realize it. If you are looking for a more blanket approach that will work on women who are in a stage of their menstrual cycle where they are looking to nest, then you will want to think of something that is both funny and smart.

The execution of a pickup line that is both funny and smart is where the challenge lies. Most men who try this come across as goofy rather than suave which is an in-built self-defense mechanism to protect themselves from the sting of rejection however the most talented pick-up artists have learnt to portray an air of confidence and outcome-independence that women fall for every time.

A series of surveys was done on the types of pickup lines and their effectiveness. One was a direct pickup line such as "I saw you looking at me from the other side of the room and I had just had to come over and say hi" and a less direct approach such as "I think I know you from somewhere." The results of the survey showed that the in-direct approach fared poorly among women who were looking for long-term partners however among women who were looking for a short-term mate the type of pickup line used did not matter: all that they cared about was how attractive they perceived the man who delivered the line to be. Keep in mind you don't have to look like a supermodel for a pickup line to work. What women perceive as making a man attractive is his level of confidence and his social status. Having washboard abs will help however you are more likely to experience success with women if you spend more time working on your confidence than your muscles.

It's All in The Delivery

You have to be confident. There is absolutely no way around this. You could have a pickup line given to you directly from Aphrodite herself but if you deliver it with your shoulders hunched forward, head looking down and talking too fast, you will never stand a chance.

Women will make their judgement on potential mates within the first five seconds of seeing or meeting a man. When we communicate only 20% of the message gets across in the words that we use. The rest is said in our body language. Body language is in the subtle cues that most of us forget about such as what we do with our hands, how we stand and whether we make eye contact or not. When delivering a pickup line, think of the words that you use as a collection of soothing sounds that you make to keep her interested. Concentrate instead on what your body says while you deliver those lines and you can be sure to be successful every time.

Reading this, you may be tempted to think that using such tactics will turn you into a manipulator. Well, the truth is that a manipulator is exactly what you want to be. Cosmopolitan and other women's magazines are filled with articles warning women on how to avoid manipulators because they know that those manipulators are alpha males who are efficient in their use of pickup lines. There aren't any articles advising women on how to avoid boring beta males because they already know how to do this.