Personal Narrative Self Identity

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Personal Narrative Self Identity

Throughout most of my childhood, I have been predominantly exposed to nothing

but the Chinese culture. When my parents first immigrated to the United States from

Canton, China, they rented a small apartment located right in the heart of Chinatown.

Chinatown was my home, the place where I met all my friends, and the place where I'd

thought I'd never leave. I spoke only Cantonese, both to my friends and to my parents.

Everyone I was around spoke fluent Cantonese, and I never spoke anything other than

Cantonese. I was pretty much secluded from the outside world because I never left

Chinatown, for I felt this was my home. However, my parents felt differently. They

wanted me to adapt the "American" culture. By being more "Americanized", they felt

that life would be better and that my sister and I would be more accepted. For that reason,

my family and I made the big move to the Sunset District ten years ago; a move my

parents hope would be a quick assimilation into the mainstream -- the "American"

culture- an assimilation that would ultimately change my values and my perceptions of

my cultural background.

When I moved from Chinatown to the Sunset District, I was completely amazed

at how different it was compared to where I grew up. There was considerably less

traffic and noise on the streets. I remember, I would have to push my way to get through

streets when I was in Chinatown. One major difference that I noticed was that all the

children were Caucasian. This was completely different for me because when living in

Chinatown, I only associated with predominantly Asian. Sunset definitely had more

Caucasians than Chinat...

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...spent the rest of lunch hour chatting with him. I found out that we have much in

common and that he was a wonderful person, both inside and outside. We found

our parents to be very similar in both their values and beliefs. We soon became

great friends and as our friendship became stronger, I felt I was rediscovering

myself again.

During my childhood, I focused so hard on changing my ways and being accepted

that for a time I felt that I also lost myself in the process. I felt as if I didn't know who I

was any more. By trying to adopt my friends' values, I abandoned my own. My behavior

changed completely. Once I let go of that superficial self, I no longer had to pretend to be

someone I was not and just be who I am. I no longer hated the fact that I was Chinese. I

accepted who I was. More importantly, I was happy with myself.

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