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Where there is life, there is always death. As well as happy times along with the sad. When I originally thought of a nursing home, I always thought it was a place old people that no longer could take of themselves went to die. Nursing homes however, are so much more than that. As I walked into Somerset Health and Rehab center on the 20th of September in Somerset Ohio, more than one feeling came over me. A feeling of being apprehensive, timidness and joyful, hit me like a truck. I was apprehensive and timid not only because I was completely out of my element but I had never been surrounded by so many elderly people at once. I did not want to bump into any of the old “feeble” people, nor did I really know how to act around them. Some of the elders sat around with grim,sad and disgusted looks on their faces also sparking which would be my timidness. On the other hand, a sense of joyfulness could not help but come across me either. After I made it …show more content…
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My father passed away in 1991, two weeks before Christmas. I was 25 at the time but until then I had not grown up. I was still an ignorant youth that only cared about finding the next party. My role model was now gone, forcing me to reevaluate the direction my life was heading. I needed to reexamine some of the lessons he taught me through the years.
when we arrived at pinnacle ridge nursing home few weeks ago I was very hesitant. I thought the elderly people would not really care if I was there or not. I thought they would be mean to me and the group of people I was with. However, to my surprised they where not any of those things. The elderly where egger to talk to us. I could see in that moment when we walked into the building the joy on there faces.
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Something that I really struggled with was the passing of my Grandmother. She was a strong woman and an inspiration to everybody in my family. I think that I struggled with it because she was a great human being, I kind of looked up to her a bit, and of course she was part of my family. I think that along with her passing, I struggled with the fact that she died when I thought that she did nothing wrong in her entire life and did not deserve to die. Mainly the fact that she was a really good person and she just died like that.