Wouldn’t it be amazing to get a trophy every time you threw out the trash? It seems evident that someone would only take out the trash for that award, which is why these types of awards are influencing and harming the youth of today. Participation awards are tricking children into only putting in enough effort to receive that award, and are not challenging themselves to work harder to achieve something better. Being rewarded may seem like easy money for children, however, this only harms them in the future because children should participate in various activities for their own benefit, rather than expecting an award anytime they do something that requires effort. As people grow older, they start to receive increased amounts of critique. Miniscule …show more content…
Most people would rather come home with a reward, which is why participation awards are another reason why people want to become involved with an activity, rather than taking home the bigger picture. Even though I still dance at family events, my dance career ended once I entered high school. With that extra space in my schedule, I wanted to take a class, during my freshman year, that could benefit me as an adult, such as speech and debate. I have always struggled with maintaining eye contact and not speaking clearly whenever I spoke to someone, and when I joined the Clark Speech and Debate Team, a whole new world opened up to me. I was introduced to multiple opportunities to compete in diverse speaking events. Since it was my first year competing, I never made it into finals and would always be ranked the bottom three, which was very discouraging. Frustrated, I wanted to focus on becoming a better speaker, rather than winning an award. I practiced my speeches whenever I had the chance, and finally, the day came. I had finally made it into the finals round, and I placed eighth. Even though it is not an ideal victory to win eighth, I was thrilled because all of my hard work paid off, and I became a better speaker throughout the process. If I had not pushed myself to work harder to strengthen my skill, I would have never been able to achieve that higher level of success. Receiving an award for simply participating would have diminished my goal of becoming a better speaker because I would not have had the experience of putting in further effort to attain my ambitions. Children should participate in activities to experience the real world, where people are not rewarded for everything they do, for their own benefit without expecting any rewards, so that they can learn from their mistakes and use them to excel in that skill. Participating for their own benefit means
Our society has shifted its beliefs in how we should treat competition in young people. The question is asked, should all kids get a participation trophy? As it may seem to be an unanswerable question, it honestly isn’t. Thought that the participation trophies may send the message that “coaches” value the kids’ efforts despite their abilities, trophies do not need to be given out. Your words mean just as much when you remind an athlete that you value them in more ways than one. Some may think trophies are a great idea because it shows that everyone’s a “winner.” However, I disagree with that idea. I believe that kids should know that they need to work their hardest in order to be rewarded and understand that not
Some argue that participation trophies are going to be the downfall of society and human life in general. That is not the case but, there are many downsides of these awards, in this essay a few of these will be brought to attention. Participation trophies do not teach children valuable lessons.
Participation trophies to an individual may lead them down a good or bad path, but it depends on how the child receives and views the trophy. The trophy can be harmful making it seem like people don’t have to work hard to accomplish anything, which can affect an individual in the future. The participation of sports is important as it can lead to better time management and teach valuable lessons, and participation trophies help children stay active in the sport. Any individual who receives participation trophies can be lead down a path of
A participation trophy can help a child's drive to improve. When a child plays a game and loses, but then watches the other team get a trophy they feel that they suck and won't try to improve. Once they get a participation trophy they make the child feel like they did good and that next time if they get better they will get a bigger trophy for winning and not losing. For instance, “Further, studies also tell us that children who participate in sports get better…”(Huffington 1). This exemplifies that children who participate feel the drive to get better at the sport. When inferring that since they participated they are getting an award if makes them feel like they did good, and then they want to get even better to get a better reward. Thus making the kids get better at the sport showing that participation trophies are beneficial to children, but there are more opportunities to show how they are
Some people may argue that if everyone gets a trophy, everyone will be happy. That might be an understandable concern, however, according to people on blog.sportssignup.com, “By acknowledging everyone with the same award we’re actually celebrating no one and even undermining the efforts of those who really deserve to be recognized.” Similarly, it makes the kids who work really hard feel like there efforts were equal or worse than the efforts of those who do not try hard and do not work hard. On the other hand, if everyone gets a trophy than winners are no longer special. Kids should play sports because they enjoy playing them, not because they want a trophy. It is like one of those arcade games at the movie theater, you keep playing until you win. Another way to say this is, sports were made because they wanted to let people have fun and try to compete, but now sports is turning into the concept of everyone is a winner. Kids and adults feel like we are ruining what sports are supposed to be. In summary, many citizens think that kids should not get trophies for participation because only kids who work hard deserve
In the 2011 essay “Do We All Deserve Gold? Setting Kids Up To Fail”, Vivian Diller, PhD, writes that “awards can intensify competition, impact self-esteem, get parents too involved and add tension among coaches, but they also teach kids about winning and
The maxim “trying is the important thing” will only lead to laziness and complacency in life. Trying is very important in being successful, but there are many more important things that are necessary for success. Parents try to boost their children’s self-esteem and make their children happy by giving them participation medals, but this is actually counter-productive. Larger and larger amounts of medals and trophies are given for increasingly smaller achievements, and this “everybody’s a winner” mentality can make children grow up to expect success and recognition for a mediocre performance. Children may be led to underachieve and not try their best, which may lead to idleness and lack of achievement in the truly competitive environment of
Some people think that giving children a participation trophy after a sports game or season is a helpful thing to do. People may think this because it can teach kids the importance of showing up to practice and games and trying your best, which are important skills later in life. (Heffernan 1) Kids will also be happy that their hard work is being acknowledged and rewarded, in the form of a trophy. (Heffernan 1) However, this
L. Hefferman’s article “ In Defense of Participation Trophies: Why they really do teach the right values?” it states “ An award is not really an award if everyone gets it.” (Today.com) In another article by Ashley Merryman called “Losing is Good For You” it says “Awards can be a powerful motivators but nonstop recognition does not inspire children to succeed. Instead, it can cause them to underachieve.” (New York Times Sept. 2013) It is clear, by not giving participation awards it make the children who do get awarded feel more special than if everyone gets one. Obviously, not giving participation awards to everyone gives more of a boost of self-esteem to the people who do get
The society we live in makes it normal to give out awards that have not been earned. Why should we give awards to people that haven’t earned them? People will say that we do give out unearned awards to encourage children and make sure they don’t feel left out or feel like they aren’t good enough. In reality, studies have shown that awarding children for only participation has a negative impact. Kids know when they have earned
Determining whether to award participation trophies or not is a controversial issue in America today. Surprisingly, most people are in favor of not awarding participation trophies to children because of the negative outcomes. A solution that is suggested to solving the problem is to ensure both the winning and losing team a trophy. Conversely, when both teams receive a trophy this defeats the purpose of even playing the game. Children are smart enough to know if they won or lost a game, and by letting each team receive a trophy it creates confusion for children. If a child is rewarded with a plaque after a loss, this could cause confusion for a child because he or she might not understand the purpose of the plaque. Several children understand that while competing there is only one true winner, and by giving both teams awards this creates a false sense of how sports actually maneuver. As children grow old enough to play for their school’s team, they will quickly learn that only teams who win are awarded trophies. Teaching children how a sport operates at a young age could help children comprehend sports better and sooner. Children should not be given participation trophies because the winning effort should be awarded, each sport is a competition, and children deserve proper feedback.
For example, once they go into higher grades and do well on assignments they will be disappointed when they get nothing more than a good grade. According to Jason Powers, once kids reach the age four or five they are able to identify those who struggle and those who succeed. By not giving participation trophies you are helping our athletes learn how to improve. Coaches will always have a reason to giving away participation trophies. If you ask most coaches, their reason will be the kids are happy and feel they actually matter in the game.
Todays generation of kids have been crafted to expect praise for everyday tasks and have become entitled all because of something many people thought was harmless, participation trophies. If you ask anyone, they have probably recieved a participation trophy at least once in their life and some will think it was a good thing, but others may beg to differ. In my opinion participation trophies are a bad tool in life because it goes along and is a big part of the we are all winners concept. Trophies should be a symbol of accomplishing something not a symbol of participation in an activity and a few people have written about their opinion about this situation varying from critical writers, to college athletes from around the country here are
Many people say that participation trophies make things fair. Really? Someone could not come for one of those practices and still get the same award as someone who worked really hard. Is that really fair? Besides, what kind of messages are these trophies sending?