Most people in life that I would consider a loser, don't view themselves the same as I do. In my opinion there are many things that cause someone to be a loser. Many main causes of a loser to me consist of a lack of good morals, a person who doesn’t set goals, and a person who makes excuses for everything. If you take a person who is lacking good morals they tend to disrespect the rule that arguably every human knows, and that is the difference between right and wrong. The cause of bad morals makes a particular person unenjoyable to be around, and these people often cause trouble around others. I will argue that most people have decent morals and they will often become disturbed by the actions of someone with lesser morals, and this is a huge underlying problem that isn't blatantly obvious because it reaches back to the foundation people were raised on. The morals taught while being raised are …show more content…
In my honest opinion these people are complete losers. My main reason is the fact that most people that consistently make excuses are often running from the responsibilities they have. If you are always giving excuses, this means you are hoping the person you are talking to is willing, or dumb enough to overlook a responsibility you were given to complete. An excuse allows the person to feel comfortable with something they know they did wrong, showing a true coward in the person not able to face a particular problem. The reason these people are truly losers is because whenever I hear an "excuse expert" all I seem to get from their excuse is "reduce your expectations of me and this relationship". Showing that they don't value relationships, which in my life are among the most important of things. These people affect everyone around them and don’t realize how dumb they look, after time and time again they give the same old excuses. They leave you feeling that they just don’t want to try, and that hurts a
"The superficial nature of human moral systems" is a valid concern in society today. This has always been a factor in society that authors have felt the need to address. People see the hypocrisy in themselves and know that it exists in others. The manners that are so commonly used in public are rarely practiced in private. Most people are ashamed to say and do what they believe is right when they are in public. This understanding causes people to worry what other human beings are doing out of the public view. If it weren't for the opinions of others, most of the popular ideas on morality would not be implemented at all.
Adversity enhances ones’ positive characteristics due to the provision of an ideal environment for establishing integrity and developing a mature mindset. This conclusion is valid because people tend to learn from their mistakes, thus gain a broader perspective on life.
Morals have a greater social element to values and tend to have a very broad acceptance. Morals are far more about good and bad than other values. We thus judge others more strongly on morals than values. A person can be described as immoral, yet there is no word for them not following values.
To lose is to win. These words are come from ancient China, which means a loser can gain something profitable to be defeated deliberately. People always want to win to satisfy own sense of superiority, especially teenagers and boys. In the noble, Crash, written by Jerry Spinelli, there is a boy named Crash, who always wants to win and attention. However, he lets a boy named Penn win, because he wants him to run at next Relays, to return for Penn’s gift for Scooter, and he thinks too much about his opponent. Also, he gains profit to become a loser, for example, he learns a loser’s feeling, he learns friendship, and he learns to think other’s minds.
Page 1 of 1 In the article, Losing is Good For You, written by Ashley Merryman for the New York Times, the author state that awards can be powerful motivators, but nonstop recognition does not move kids to succeed. Rather, it can make them underachieve. As well as, giving kids trophies for losing can bring them not give their best attempt at something, and keep them from understanding progress. A psychology professor of Stanford University Carol Dweck found that kids react positively to praise, they appreciate to listen that they’re talented, smart and so on.
who get defeated by their fears and challenges are losers. And the people who overcome their
Most people tend to let ones anxiety control him, their fears scare them and obstacles get in their way. If one lets this get in his way, then there’s no possible way that he will be able to overcome his obstacles. For example, a great artist named Phil Hansen had been diagnosed with nerve damage and he let his obstacles get in his way of creating art. In addition to this, a journalist named James Collier suffered of anxiety and he let his anxiety control him. Hansen had to embrace his shake, Collier overcame his anxiety and I had to overcome anxiety at a certain point in my life as well. Having that said, overcoming obstacles will allow one to surpass his.
In the article, “Are You A Loser” it tells you that, “The ability to dust yourself off and try again” helps you to be able to try again and not give up so easy (28). You can figure out how to dust yourself off and try again without giving up on simple things that you fail and give up on. You will get up and try again. It’s more likely that you will get closer to being able to do what it was you failed on or even succeed on it. Improving or succeeding on what your goal is will feel good, but it won't just be handed to you. You will fail and,
As a child my parents worried about my educational development. They didn’t know if I was going to be able to keep up with the other children. I was in the third grade and didn’t know any English. I struggled academically my remaining elementary years to catch up to the other children, but it wasn’t long until I exceeded my peers in middle school.
Over many years people have seemed to develop their thinking concerning morality based on resulting in interactions with individuals and social institutions. Different societies have their own cultures that have different ideas about how humans are to behave. Societies
In life, people will always have something to say about you in everything one does in life, either negative or positive, but it’s the moment when you let what is said upon you affect the way you live your life, that when its becomes a problem. I for myself have been victim of so many people saying things about me and letting get into my head, but I had the courage to overcome a lot of obstacles like that. I have struggled with a lot of obstacles in my life some got the better of me while I have been able to overcome most of them. I am writing this essay to give an example of an obstacle which I struggled with for a very long time and I nearly took the best of me, but with time I was able to overcome it.
Overcoming Obstacles Throughout a persons life, they are faced with different obstacles, and different challenges of all different types. My life in particular has been full of ups and downs, especially towards my soccer career. In the novel The Pact, three boys, George, Rameck, and Sam, are faced with many obstacles throughout their lives, where they must learn to overcome and achieve great success on their own will power. Essentially, I did the same thing. My soccer career has been one of my most difficult life challenges, creating the person I am today.
This applies not only to the losers of a situation, but also to the winners. Most people have heard the phrases “cheaters never win” and “sore losers,” but they do not typically tag them onto winners. However, they still apply. Whether someone wins in the strictest meaning of the term or not is an obvious result, but if one is boastful, he or she gains nothing from the situation. Thus, he or she is not winning anything.
“I believe that difficulties are more important to human mind than what we call assistances. When we work we all must, if we mean to bring out and perfect our nature” said by William Channing. As he explains that difficulties are more needed in human life than assistance and no work can be completed without facing obstacles. Obstacles is a major event in life that shapes you. Overcoming difficulties is necessary because it can stop you from achieving a goal, dream and self confident, the reward in overcoming obstacle is whether real or perceived is always greater than giving up and sports is a metaphor for overcoming obstacles and achieving against others.
Have you ever wondered if there could possibly be overwhelming obstacles in the way of someone being truly successful in life? Some may witness friends or loved ones not developing to their fullest potential in their profession because of these unobtainable obstacles holding them back. In “Professions for Women,” by Virginia Woolf, Woolf gives a speech to a group of women explaining why they must overcome certain things in order to be successful in their future professional careers. In speaking to this group of determined young women, Woolf explains how horrendous it may be to have your own thoughts or beliefs while living in a society said to be dominated by males. She