Our mistakes, our failures, our poor choices don't have to keep us from our Destiny

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For an English assignment I was asked by my teacher to indie about growing up and giving up the things you love doing. This essay is supposed to be conducive. By conducing this essay it shows growing up it isn't all it is cracked up to be. Just the thought of growing up made me turn ghostly pale. When I stare at adults I see how some of them are unhappy and not satisfied with their lives. I see how someone got hitched to the wrong companion. I've watched couples who have been married for years and years but do not seem pleased to be with each another. It seems everyone has a monogamy. Why is it that when an adult gets married someone loses their passion f towards each another? Is it a curse? I'm curious to know if it happens to everyone in this world. I have witnessed how children dislike their parents or parent. I watch as some parents or parent don't even pay attention to their own flesh and blood. How can a parent neglect their child? Your child is significant. Parents are wrongheaded. I look around this town and observe the adult life. I've noticed that when parents get divorced it tears up their family. Leaving their children or child to choose who to live with. Now that's Insane. Almost everybody makes a disaster of their life and are living in regret. Instead of trying to fix their lives everyone continue to live in calamity.I define adulthood as inscrutable. I also find adulthood insurmountable. Why is it that some adults are never happy with their life? You don't need anyone else's permission to be happy. Your life is magnificent not because someone says it is, but because you choose to see it as such! If certain adults dislike their life why not try to ameliorate the dilemma? How does an adult handle all the responsibili...

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...cial knack I have. What if I can't get a job as a photographer because nobody likes my work or I'm not diligent enough? Thinking about my life freaks me out. I don't want to have a tedium life. I won't have a drab life. I want my life to be spontaneous and full of jovial. I want to try to have the best life I possibly can before I become deceased. I want to be remembered for my beautiful photographs. Even after posthumous I want my photographs to be seen by the public. That is why I want to leave my life's work of photographs behind for anyone to admire. In conclusion don't regret anything because at someone point you wanted it. Regardless of whether it was a bad experience or a good experience, everything happens for a reason. You are where you are today regardless of every decision you have ever made. My life as a teenager is soon coming to an end I must say adieu!

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