Moving Is Still Tough For Kids By Nancy Darling Analysis

Saho Yoshida

Miss B

College writing

7 Nov. 2016

Moving is Still Tough for Children “Moving is Tough for Kids”, written by Nancy Darling argued that children who experienced moving face many problems. She illustrates how kids are affected by moving and what the problem when moving children. She says it is proven that frequent moves are tough on kids because it breaks up their important friendships. It causes children to have low quality relationships and low point of well-being and satisfaction in life. Some problems that occur with children who moved are caused by moving itself. There are some possibilities that it is caused by family’s potential problem or children’s puberties. In my opinion, everyone might have difficult experience when

First is a touch subject. She has experienced ten moves, some of them when she was a child, and others after she had sons. After she became tenured, her son’s friends moved away. The second problem is that her son left behind. It is very tough for children to lose their best friends. This sometimes cause inattentiveness, hyperactivity, acting-out yelling and hitting, and sleeping trouble. Her son also had these problems. Third, communication is changing along with the changing of generations. Because of technological improvements, recently children can talk face to face with video call applications. Nancy believes that it might decrease children’s stress caused by moving. Fourth, she suggests that getting involved is the best way to reduce the difficulty of moving. She said her father made an effort to attend community activities, and he succeeded to become part of a community. It helps to avoids isolation from

People should know how big an influence moving is. Some care is needed to reduce damage related to relationships, because this damage will continue even when they are adults. David Hosier BSc Hons suggests “Because of our negative experiences in childhood, we might often have NEGATIVE BIASES in our thinking when it comes to considering relationships.” There is the possibility that moving can cause serious problems related to relationships with others. One solution would be counseling provided by a professional. The existence of someone who understands their situation makes children relieved, and takes anxiety from them. Also, being understanding of children when moving is important. If teachers and student understand about the difficulty of moving, children or children left behind, they can be a person who kindly offers a helping hand to a person in need. Kindness can help children who have difficulty moving be more cheerful, express their feelings the right way, and easily to settle into new