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One morning I woke up to go see my cat and then I see my mom sitting down right by where my cat had died. And she said to me “michael died”. I Got really sad because my cat was the first cat I have ever had at my mom's house. And after school sometimes when I got home to see that my cat was there to greet me at the door or sleeping by the window her favorite place to sleep when it's sunny and to go to her I stroke her fur, or sometimes pick her up and put her on my lap to pet her. Then I started to cry and I new that I would never see my cat again because she was gone forever. But then my sister came down and she said “where the cat?” We told her what happened and then she started to cry. So then the rest of that day I was very, very sad that
my cat that was very special to me was gone forever... And now I'm still sad that my cat died and she could still be here if she didn't die. But now i'm not as sad as i was because I don't really remember what happened then but, she was a good cat and I really loved her and i'm not really happy with my brother and sister pulled her tale I did it but I shouldn't have because now i realize she probably didn't like that a lot. And I still look at a picture of me holding her and think it would be nice to still have her and sometimes cry if I was very sad but its very rare.
When I walked inside the front door something didn’t seem right. The feeling of sorrow overwhelmed the house. It was so thick I could literally feel it in the air. Everyone was motionless. They were sulking;I was befuddled. The most energetic people in the world, doing absolutely nothing. I repeatedly asked them what was wrong. After an hour or so, my dad pulled me aside. He said that my Aunt Feli had passed away last night. My mind went for a loop, I was so confused. I thought that he was joking, so I replied “You’re lying, don’t mess with me like that.” and punched his shoulder softly while I chuckled. My dad quickly started tearing up and said, “There...
A clear understanding on attachment that I was able to obtain while reading The Boy Who was raised as a Dog was very similar to what I had obtained from my class textbook Development Through Life: A Psychosocial Approach. According to Newman & Newman (2012), “attachment is the process through which people develop specific, positive emotional bonds with others”. Newman & Newman (2012) mentioned an infant’s attachment is expressed through preferential responsiveness to a few familiar figures. As an infant it is very vital to have a secure attachment with one’s caregiver not just for the child’s brain to develop the correct way, but for the growth of relationships later in the child’s life. Newman and Newman (2012) also point out that there is
I received the call that my brother had overdosed when I was going to a haunted house with a couple of my friends. My mother had not known the severity and told me not to worry. Steven had overdosed in the past so I was not as concerned as I should have been. My friends and I kept on with our festivities and then they dropped me off at my house. There was no one home and I became distressed. When I called my mother she told me to just go to bed and that they would be home soon. I forced myself to sleep. I was in a daze when my mother and father came into my room to tell me that my brother was dead. I don’t know what happened in my brain, but I could not talk and I could not cry. I believe I brushed it off as an awful nightmare. My unconscious demeanor scared my parents so they kept sending people in my room trying to get through to me. I woke up to my best friend hugging me, not saying a word, and then she left. I woke up to my grandma holding my hand with tears flowing down her eyes, not saying a word, and then she left. I woke to my godmother speaking about grief and how I needed to believe that he was gone, and then she left. How was I supposed to believe that my brother was no longer on this earth? I sat there on my bed alone as the idea of my brother dying crept into my mind. My heart began to literally ache. I cried hysterically for hours on hours. It has been a year since he has passed and it doesn’t get any
It was during this time that I received the news that my papa was diagnosed with brain cancer.. I remember how we had to be strong as a family to help my each other go through a battle. This made my view about my family change. Thanks to this event, I became closer than ever with my family. Three months before he died, he told me he wouldn’t be around much longer. At first I was miserable. I remember just think it was all a dream and I believing that he wouldn 't die. I cried when I learned that he didn’t have long to live. The idea of him dying and what it would actually mean to not have him around. Dearing this time I experienced a few behavior
Everyone makes mistakes when they’re little. It’s how we learned and grew as people, no one can get everything right on the first try. This is especially true when it comes to new pet owners, or raising an animal in general. When you’re taking care of a pet for the first time there’s always something new to learn. There are plenty of mistakes to be had when it comes to caring for an animal, like thinking a hamster is sick when it’s just sleeping a lot because they’re actually nocturnal. Or the most heartbreaking mistake, losing a pet. When a child loses a pet sometimes parents lie so that their child doesn’t feel bad. Which is understandable, but it can hurt more when that child finds out the truth on their own.
We really thought we were going to lose our grandmother that day. Me and my big brother was over our grandmother’s house, then I was sleep and my brother was watching T.V. while he saw our grandmother fall and have a stroke. When my brother saw our grandmother fall He woke me up. Then, I started crying because I was only 6 years old I didn’t know what to do.
As a kid, I fell in love with the idea of getting a puppy for Christmas. Wrapped in a small box with a bow on top sitting under the tree just like the movies and tv shows I had seen. I can remember making a Christmas list of all the things I wanted that year, and every year the same thing that I wanted had said “puppy” with it underlined so that my mother knew which was my favorite on the list. Every year no surprise, I didn’t find a dog. I never understood why I never received one. When the kids at school talked about the few dogs they had at home made me so jealous, but I hoped that one day it would be me to have my own best friend at home.
At the age of eight I returned home from school to realize my cat was nowhere to be found. When I approached my parents about this they began to argue over who had to inform me of the decision to euthanize my cat, my father lost. I was told that the cat was ill and it was cheaper to euthanize him than to pay for surgery to remove something from his intestines. I was overcome with emotions, I was angry at my father for his decision. I told him he could have quit smoking and used that money for the surgery. This caused my father to laugh and put an end to the discussion. I cried for many weeks, like most young children my pet was my best friend. I became withdrawn and began to lose my appetite.
I had named him I had loved him and now he was gone. At home, later that afternoon they buried the cat in the backyard, still wrapped in the towel I lower him into the hole crying.
Two years and four months ago I died. A terrible condition struck me, and I was unable to do anything about it. In a matter of less than a year, it crushed down all of my hopes and dreams. This condition was the death of my mother. Even today, when I talk about it, I burst into tears because I feel as though it was yesterday. I desperately tried to forget, and that meant living in denial about what had happened. I never wanted to speak about it whenever anyone would ask me how I felt. To lose my Mom meant losing my life. I felt I died with her. Many times I wished I had given up, but I knew it would break the promise we made years before she passed away. Therefore, I came back from the dead determined and more spirited than before.
"Honey," my mom yelled to me one sunny afternoon, "Go out and feed Sugar." Sugar was our dog, a big, husky lap dog. I went to our kitchen, and got some food. Then I stepped outside, into the warm, fresh August air, looking for Sugar. I glanced to where I kept Sugar, and couldn't believe my eyes. Sugar was not there. I ran to the place where Sugar slept, I saw that the leash was elegantly coiled up. I knew that Sugar could not have run away. I thought that she must have chased a deer or another animal. Then a disturbing thought hit me, Sugar might have been abducted. As I tried to push that thought out of my mind, I thought that my mom could have put Sugar out in the garage. I went to the garage to check, but unfortunately Sugar wasn?t there. ?Mom,? I cried after a couple of seconds, ?Do you know where Sugar is??
Ever since I can remember I’ve wanted a dog. Never did I think that dogs would end up being by biggest fear. I was just a little kid around 6 years old when it happened. I was walking home from my friend’s house when I saw a stray dog, it was in the middle of the street blocking my way, I decided to walk past it, while I was walking it started growling at me, I hesitated but still kept trying to walk then suddenly it got up and started barking empathically towards me. I was terrified, my first initial reaction being a 6 year old kid was to scare it away, I was ignorant. I picked up a rock and threw it at the dog thinking it’ll get scared and run away. I was wrong. The dog had enough it made a whimpering noise then started barking even louder
February twenty-third 2010 was just a regular ordinary day. I was on my way to class on this cold February afternoon, when my phone rung. It was my cousin on the other end telling me to call my mom. I could not figure out what was wrong, so I quickly said okay and I hung up and called my mom. When my mom answered the phone I told her the message but I said I do not know what is wrong. My mom was at work and could not call right away, so I took the effort to call my cousin back to see what was going on. She told me that our uncle was in the hospital and that it did not look good. Starting to tear up I pull over in a fast food restaurant parking lot to listen to more to what my cousin had to say. She then tells me to tell my mom to get to the hospital as quickly as possible as if it may be the last time to see her older brother. My mom finally calls me back and when I tell her the news, she quickly leaves work. That after-noon I lost my Uncle.
It was Friday night, I took a shower, and one of my aunts came into the bathroom and told me that my dad was sick but he was going to be ok. She told me that so I did not worry. I finished taking a bath, and I immediately went to my daddy’s house to see what was going on. My dad was throwing-up blood, and he could not breath very well. One of my aunts cried and prayed at the same time. I felt worried because she only does that when something bad is going to happen. More people were trying to help my dad until the doctor came. Everybody cried, and I was confused because I thought it was just a stomachache. I asked one of my older brothers if my dad was going to be ok, but he did not answer my question and push me away. My body shock to see him dying, and I took his hand and told him not to give up. The only thing that I heard from him was, “Daughters go to auntie...
The first time I encountered the world’s evil was when I was very little. I was five years old; with all of the innocence a five year old could have. I was wearing a cute pink shirt and I had my hair in a ponytail. I was carefree and constantly happy. However, the atmosphere changed. My cat, named Ichabod, started acting a little strange. We took him to the vet, hoping it was just a minor issue. The vet had said that Ichabod, the cat I had loved so much, had both diabetes and cancer. Being only five, the only information I understood was that Ichabod was very sick. I was scared because I loved him and I was afraid that he was going to die. I remember how my mom had hated to give him medicine because Ichabod didn’t like it. I wished he would just take the medicine because I thought it would make him better. A few days later, my neighbors had come over for dinner and games. We were all happy and having fun. When the party was over, my mom told me that Ichabod had died. Apparently, Jody, who was a former vet, went to see our cats during the party. My mom said that Jody found Ichabod on the floor coughing up blood. Shortly afterwards, he died. They put him in his cat bed and asked my brother and me if we wanted to say goodbye. I cried. I cried for a long time, and I thought I would never have a cat as great as him ever again. However, time has passed and although Ichabod is still in my heart, I understand now that his death was only one grain of sand on the beaches full of grief...