Masculinity And Womanhood

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Men and women differ in numerous ways, including physiologically and mentally. One may in which men differ most from women is in how men perceive manhood and masculinity versus how women view their womanhood and femininity. Men perceive manhood as a concept which is difficult to earn and difficult to maintain. Manhood can be easily lost by failing to act in a certain manner or by failing to conform to societies views of masculinity. Womanhood on the other hand, is not so easily lost. Numerous cultures from around the world have different rituals and coming of age traditions in which boys earn their manhood. Women in these cultures generally earn their womanhood by surpassing age related milestones. According to the authors, Bosson and Vandello, …show more content…

These traditions are often found in preindustrial societies and are often risky and dangerous. Boys earn their manhood by undertaking various, dangerous tests in which they risk their wellbeing. Womanhood on the other hand is often obtained by passing certain physiological milestones such as puberty. One key piece of information presented by the authors is that men view their own masculinity in active terms. For example, men view and describe their lives in terms of action specific words. Men also described manhood, in general, with more transient adjectives and described womanhood with more permanent adjectives. When men feel that their manhood is threated by another, they often go to dangerous lengths in order to solidify it. Another important piece of evidence presented by the author is regarding honor and its link to manhood in certain cultures. Within societies in which honor and manhood are linked, men are viewed as the protectors of women’s honor. In honor cultures, aggressive acts are seen as more masculine but are seen as less masculine in non-honor …show more content…

I played football throughout my high school career and during my senior year, I tore a ligament in my knee. After numerous visits to the doctor, it was concluded that I would need to have knee surgery in order to replace the torn ligament and fix an issue regarding missing bone from my kneecap. My doctors told me that I would not be able to play for the rest of the season and that I would be relegated to the sidelines. I believed that an aspect of my manhood had been stripped away. In order to regain my manhood, I pushed myself and played in the final game of the season. During the game, I injured myself further, though not very seriously. Because I believed that I lost a piece of my masculinity, I pushed myself further than I should have and injured myself further in order to regain that missing piece. In hindsight, I believe that my thoughts and actions regarding this experience were wrong. I should not have pushed myself because I perceived that a portion of my manhood had been stripped

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