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According to Google, the word pleasure is defined as “a feeling of happy satisfaction and enjoyment,” while the word joy is defined as “a feeling of great pleasure and happiness.” However, a dictionary definition is not merely as complex, subjective, and versatile as human emotions and experiences – though, it does provide a basic generalization of how most people perceive and process different feelings, emotions, and moods. Author, Zadie Smith, respectively, analyzes and differentiates between pleasure and joy and distinctively separates the two with regards to their quality and quantity. As she explains, pleasure most closely refers to a temporary state of satisfaction and contentment, it can be easily forgotten, and is often times preferred …show more content…
over joy. Contrastingly, joy, as defined by Smith, is much more complex (in the sense that it is not merely one type of feeling, but rather a series of emotions mixed together like a cocktail) and by its nature, joy rarely contains any pleasure at all, though without it life would be meaningless; as human lives are an accumulation of choices and experiences defined by whatever emotion, sentiment, and consequence are attached to them.
To Zadie Smith, joy, unlike pleasure, is not a sub-category of happiness; but is rather something so delirious that thinking about it (or rather reminiscing about it) somehow dements and destroys the feeling entirely, allowing the feeling to be devoured by its potential negative consequences or side effects. Simply put, Smith believes that pleasure can be romanticized, while joy cannot; and although that may be the case on the surface, her acute intellectual analysis and assessment reveals that joy in its truest and purest form is what every human being should strive for in order to reach bliss or a perfect state of …show more content…
happiness. Accordingly, the problem with the dictionary definition of joy is that it does not take into account the negative weight of the word. While by the same token, the problem with Smith’s definition of joy is that she distorts the word’s meaning in such manner that the delightfulness and pleasurable aspects of it are pulled and twisted so out of shape that if joy was a ray of light broken up by a dispersive prism, its constituent spectral colors would be in different shades of gray and blue instead of a complete rainbow. Additionally, Smith makes joy to be a rare, short term experience when in reality millions of people experience genuine joy over long periods of time. Smith states that she has experienced joy six times in her life – five times in its genuine form, and once she falsely interpreted a drug-induced state of ecstasy, elation, thrill, and frenzy as joy. Her five encounters with joy in its true form can best be summarized as “swimming in a Welsh mountain lake with somebody dear to [her],” a train ride with her husband “to visit the Holocaust museum at Auschwitz,” sitting on a high wall with her “wild crush” after the museum they were visiting had closed without them noticing, “sitting on a high hill in the South of France, […being notified that her…] two years of tension, tedious study, and academic anxiety have not been in vain,” and giving birth to her daughter. Notably, all of Smith’s joyful experiences are limited to no more than twenty-four time frames – and I am certain that at least half of them were followed by jubilating, if not pleasurable consequences. So why does she limit her joyful experiences and continues to insist that there is no point in “thinking about joy” when joy is clearly a fundamental aspect of her life? Accordingly, why does she insist that joy is “dangerous” and even goes as far calling it “human madness?” Perhaps the answer to those questions lie in three distinctive features: firstly, in Smith’s own unique interpretation of events and emotions; secondly, in her the fear that she could lose her source(s) of joy at any given moment as she knows and understands that life is short and our loved ones will eventually be lost to us; and thirdly, since she was able to recognize and identify joy after her drug experience, she has concluded that at the end of the day joy has no substantial meaning. But what makes joy so vividly important is what I believe to be Zadie Smith’s underlying message (besides framing her entire essay as a love letter to her husband): that it is better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all. Since to Smith, joy is as vulnerable as the person who brings it, she is resistant to reminisce and romanticize it; because, eventually, the more joy she finds in love, the greater the loss she will suffer when it is gone. And that is why joy “hurts just as much as it is worth.” However, by contrast, the end of a pleasure is always harmless, and easily replaceable. But people – and pets – and the joy they bring are irreplaceable. Consequently, for Smith, choosing joy over pleasure seems unreasonable and insane. But how can a choice that ultimately conforms to how any human being should live, be unreasonable? Conceivably, it seems that Smith is confusing what is commonly taken as rational with what she has learned is really rational. Considering one standard basis, an act is only rational to the extent that it helps bring about what you want to achieve; so it would make sense that the common mind would prefer pleasure to joy. But what Smith’s life has exposed to her is that most people are wrong about life's end goal and that it should be joy, not pleasure. Therefore, acting for pleasure is not rational. It is also wrong on Smith’s behalf, to view humans as the only, or rather ultimate source of joy; because in many people’s theoretical and spiritual view, human joys and loves needs to be grounded in and directed toward the eternal reality of a God who is identical with love. It is self-evident to anyone who lives in this day and age that pleasures are rather easy to come by, but joy is more elusive and obscure.
As Smith explains, I find joy to be some kind of unhappiness and grief, a distinguishable feeling of bittersweet nostalgia and longing that she deems as a dangerous and slippery slope once someone allows himself/herself to delve deeply into it. As insane as joy seems, I find myself wanting it, since most of my life experiences to this moment seem more like pleasure than joy. Perhaps because the ultimate disposability and evanescence of pleasure seems rather representative of my generation’s increasing awareness of the general fleetingness of things, and their skepticism of all the tropes (a house, a family, a career, the suburban life…) previously associated (mostly via Hollywood and other mass media) with a “joyous” life. My generation is one that has grown up seeing about half of all marriages end in divorce. We’ve seen the real estate market and the stock market collapse a few times, and have been brought up in a world where natural disasters, terrorism and apocalyptic doom are not feared as much as expected. Because we have grown up in the age of market instability, escalating debt and climate change, we are much more desirous of short-term satisfaction and contentment. We’d rather travel, eat amazing food, see movies, have adventures, and live via moment-by-moment tweets and Insta-documents, quickly forgotten; we’d rather live in the
present-tense than build for anything long-term. As sad as it sounds, most of the people in my generation prefer fantasy over reality, and would rather have a lifetime of pleasure instead of a lifetime of joy. Though, all hope is not lost. Though, as Smith elucidated, I agree that pleasure is distinct from joy; but I also think that the two are very closely linked, as pleasure can often be a catalyst for joy. And perhaps the more pleasurable experiences one has, the easier ones chances of finding joy can be.
In contrast to Aristotle, Roko Belic’s documentary “Happy” provides a fresh perspective that takes place far more recently. The film sets out to similar goals of Aristotle in defining the nature of happiness and exploring what makes different people happy in general. Unlike Aristotle, however, the film’s main argument refers to makes people happier. In this case, the film argues that merely “doing what you love” is what leads to happiness (Belic). The argument itself appears oddly self-serving, considering that message is what underlines the foundation of happiness, yet there is a subliminal message that a simpler lifestyle is what leads to what the film is trying to convince you of. The message itself is obviously addressed to Americans, considering
The society uses one’s happiness to seek their own. Starting with the ancient Adam Smith’s theory of a market economy where commodities are sold and bought in a market freely, where sellers and buyers exchange to achieve profit, and happiness is derived from profit. Thus “happiness is both produced and consumed” (Ahmed 3). Happiness is a matter of research for corporates of big companies. They try to figure out which product makes the buyers feel the happiness they need, so that they can produce more for their own profit. So, they cunningly make commercials with people having a good time. Which when watched by the buyers they get the false sense that their life would be so much better if they bought that small bottle of happiness. Once they buy their “Pandora’s box” they hope that underneath all the unnecessary objects there will be happiness, but they are dispirited at the end. Unknowingly the markets are making the society a more dull and sad place rather than distributing
Burkeman is an author who is incredibly well educated on the subject of seeking happiness, has wrote multiple works (such as The Antidote: Happiness for People Who Can't Stand Positive Thinking) on the subject, and his stylistic approach of “present the goods, make them stay” in this particular article is both clever and monumentally effective. The use of the casual tone catches the reader’s attention better, simply because it’s ironic and is in a sense, odd to read. Every paper should accommodate a certain tone to fit the subject matter. If a research paper took on a casual tone, readers wouldn’t take the author seriously, however, Burkeman utilizes an indifferent tone not only to stay true to a theme of irony, but to make the reader stay and want more. This is further proven by his use of the Museum of Failed Products as his hook and his leading example as to why everybody should stop shunning their failures. Climatically, when he has the reader’s unfaltering attention, he presents the ‘why’ behind his seemingly crazy theory behind finding happiness. Burkeman provides multiple credible sources from several different studies to prove that he not only took the time to research this subject, but he is effectively proving that he knows what he’s talking
The philosopher Aristotle once wrote, “Happiness is the meaning and the purpose of life, the whole aim and end of human existence.” This famous quote compels people to question the significance of their joy, and whether it truly represents purposeful lives they want to live. Ray Bradbury, a contemporary author, also tackles this question in his book, Fahrenheit 451, which deals heavily with society's view of happiness in the future. Through several main characters, Bradbury portrays the two branches of happiness: one as a lifeless path, heading nowhere, seeking no worry, while the other embraces pure human experience intertwined together to reveal truth and knowledge.
Before we look into specifics, we’ll examine the history and development of “happiness” as a philosophy. Of course, the emotion of happiness has always existed, but it began to be seriously contemplated around 2,500 years ago by philosophers like Confucius, Buddha, Socrates and Aristotle. Shortly after Buddha taught his followers his Noble Eight Fold Path (which we will talk about later), Aristotle was teaching that happiness is “dependent on the individual” (Aristotle).
Many people normally call the moment of satisfaction and joy happiness, but they cannot properly define what happiness is and how to pursue it. Happiness is not measureable. Happiness can be shared with others, but cannot trade. Once people are in a stage of being happy, they enjoy their work, achievements and even feel better than others; however, how are they sure that they experience happiness? Is crying an emotional expression of enjoying happiness? In the article “Ignorance of Bliss,” Steve Salerno, a freelance writer, discusses about the value of happiness and explains to people about the feeling of being happy. He interprets his arguments and provides examples to enhance his ethos, but his ideas are not sufficient enough to persuade
Everyone wants to be “happy.” Everyone endeavors to fulfill their desires for their own pleasure. What makes this ironic is, the fact that most don‘t know what the actual definition of happiness is. “In Pursuit of Unhappiness” presents an argument, which states that not everyone will be happy. Darrin McMahon, the article’s author, explores the ways our “relentless pursuit of personal pleasure”(McMahon P.11;S.3) can lead to empty aspirations and impractical expectations, making us sad, and not happy. Rather than working to find the happiness of others, we should all focus on finding what makes ourselves happy. It is easier to find happiness in the little things
The society of thoughtless happiness is not as much of an exaggeration as some may think in America. We use happy pills, both legal and illegal, and have cosmetic surgery to make us pleased with our appearances. We are surrounded by entertainment technology to a degree Huxley would laugh at. “Cleanliness is next to fordliness” We have a horror of aging so we deny it (Posner).
MLA: Wallis, Claudia, et al. “The New Science of Happiness.” Time. 17 Jan. 2005. Academic Search Premier. Yale University Library. 11 Jan. 2006.
who achieve sense of meaning in their lives are happier than those who live from one pleasure to another.
Pleasure is a source of enjoyment or delight, as described by dictionary.com. Hedonism is the pursuit of or devotion to pleasure, especially to the pleasures of the senses. Your view of pleasure clearly depends on which time period you are living in, talking about, and what you believe. For example if you lived when Epicurus lived you might believe that pain and pleasure are two different things, but if you live now and listen to Queen you might believe that pain and pleasure are not completely different things.
You know when you understand what a word means, but can 't quite define it? For instance the word "the". Well there are many words you know, but couldn 't translate the definition if someone were to ask you to. That 's sort of how I feel about the word "happiness." Along happiness comes smiling, giggling, laughing, and positive vibes. It 's your heart 's way of smiling, metaphorically speaking of course. Happiness is defined as the state of being happy. Which to sum it up means the feeling of pleasure and contentment. Happiness is seeing your food come in a restaurant. Happiness is riding a bike without training wheels and not falling. Happiness is being content with your life and the people in it. Happiness could mean something completely
When we are young children, we are introduced to the concept of "living happily ever after". This is a fairy-tale emotional state of absolute happiness, where nothing really happens, and nothing even seems to matter. It is a state of feeling good all the time. In fairy tales, this feeling is usually found in fulfilling marriages, royal castles, singing birds and laughing children. In real life, an even-keeled mood is more psychologically healthy than a mood in which you frequently achieve great heights of happiness. Furthermore, when you ask people what makes their lives worth living, they rarely mention their mood. They are more likely to talk about what they find meaningful, such as their work or relationships. Research suggests that if you focus too much on trying to feel good all the time, you’ll actually undermine your ability to ever feel good because no amount of feeling good will be satisfying to you. If feeling good all the time were the only requirement for happiness, then a person who uses cocaine every day would be extremely happy. In our endless struggle for more money, more love and more security, we have forgotten the most fundamental fact: happiness is not caused by possessions or social positions, and can in fact be experienced in any daily activity. We have made happiness a utopia: expensive, complicated, and unreachable.
One may also experience happiness when he has expanded his business almost across the globe. One may also experience happiness when he has his meal in the most famous and expensive hotel. One may also experience happiness when he attends honorable parties. One can’t imagine an ideal life like this. But don’t you feel I have missed out something in the above examples – yes, I have thereby missed out the actual meaning of happiness?
The first component essential to living an abundant life is the ability to feel joy. Joy is an experience of wellbeing in a person’s life. Joy is in some cases something that a person has no control of feeling, but in many cases it is an experience that reinforces positive behavior. Therefore by experiencing joy, a person is more likely to do positive things for themselves and for others. Joy is the basis of many of the positive aspects of life as Abraham Hicks states, "If you woul...