In The Country Of Men Betrayal Theme

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Betrayal is one of the prominent themes in the novel, In the Country of Men. The theme of betrayal is portrayed among family members, friends, and the state vs the citizens. Loyalty is considered to be an essential characteristic to be a man. The constant theme of betrayal is highlighting how fear and oppression can push someone to betray another person furthermore, how betrayal is directly linked to how that society defines manhood. Throughout the book, we get many instances of betrayal between family members. Najwa, Suleiman's mother only reveals her past to him when she is under the influence of alcohol. Najwa tells Suliman small snippets of her life before she married his father, Faraj. She was betrayed by her brother and her father. Najwa’s …show more content…

There are many instances of friends, betraying each other. One instance is Suleiman betrays his close friend Kariem. Karim is the son of Ustath Rashid, Suleiman’s his next-door neighbor and best friend. Although Kareem is three years older than Suleiman, he is still very close to Suleiman and treated him as an equal. Suleiman, under the pressure of the neighborhood boys; Osama, Masoud, and Ali; Suleiman cracks down and betrayed Karim. After losing a game multiple times in a row, Kariem was being made fun of for losing to a young boy like Suleiman. That was when Suleiman betrayed Kariem and reveled his romantic interest to Osama, Masoud, and Ali. This act of betrayal was again linked to the definition of a man in Suleiman’s society. After Suleiman betrayed him, Kariem said “‘Listen, you have no word, you are not a man because you have no word.’” (Matar, 109). Suleiman is being taught a social lesson here once again unloyalty is a characteristic that makes someone less of a man. The ultimate betrayal between friends is when Faraj betrayed Ustath Rashid. Although they were both arrested for being rebellions, only one of them betrayed the other. Both Ustath Rashid and Faraj were under pressure by the government, to cooperate only one of them cracked. The government people that believe in democracy or speak out against the government under an intense pressure and ultimately, they cooperate and give up their friends. In this society, loyalty is highly sacred and important to manhood, Ustath Rashid was willing to die to live up to his expectation as a man. If a man is not loyal he is going to face a lash back and criticism from their community. Moosa, Faraj’s friend, said “‘I can’t bear to look at him…the betrayal in his eyes’” (Matar, 208). Even his close friend found it hard to be around him after he learned that he betrayed Ustath Rashid. Earlier when Ustath Rashid was getting interrogated by

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