Importance Of Self-Defence

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Does it make sense for women to take self-defence lessons?

This is an interesting topic to discuss, but there is no clear answer. Many people would agree that women should be able to defend themselves against the violent world – others would say men need to ensure that the world is a safe environment to prevent these vile attacks. Wouldn’t you wish to live in a crime-free world? Everyone would!
Picture this: You are a weary, stressed, and miserable single mother, raising two delightfully bright children who are in need of better education. You need to work hard to earn a living – but these days, how many people don’t work hard? Due to trying to earn a living, you don’t have time to take self-defence classes, you don’t have energy to learn self-defence, and you …show more content…

Everyone wants to raise a future criminal, who spreads fear into anyone they meet and brings terror everywhere they go, right? How proud… to receive a call saying your son or daughter has been arrested. People should know the difference between right and wrong – and they should not practise such terrible acts. Instead, parents should discipline their children, parents should teach their children between the difference of right and wrong, and parents should certainly not show their children what a horrid act looks like.
People often forget to consider that women loath the stereotype that females are weak – but then men adore the idea that they can be seen to be strong. Every 107 seconds, another American woman is a victim of sexual assault . Did she know self-defence? Did she know anything that could aid her to get away from the situation? Did she know anything that could have turned the situation upside down? Self-defence is major way of protecting yourself – it’s even hidden in the name. By protecting themselves, they are able to live another day of freedom from the evil crimes criminals

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