If there is one thing people fear is being part of the norm. We like to think we are special and different from everyone else therefore, we aim for goals that would make us stand out. In Michael Shapcott’s painting Auburn we see the face of a unique girl with bright red hair and a strong clear gaze who looks like she is being engulfed little by little. In fact, it almost looks like the page is being burnt and the girl is disappearing. The truth is nothing lasts forever and when someone is too different they find themselves being treated like outcasts due to jealousy. In school kids are bullied when they are different from everybody else and rejected when someone actually gets to know them and then realize that while they look different they are still like everyone else. We cannot go around pleasing everyone, it’s just not possible because everyone always wants and expects someone different. The gaze of the girl in Shapcott’s painting seems to say that she experienced all the expectations that people automatically had of her due to her appearance but that they weren’t the ones that mattered, she was. In a way Amanda Palmer is similar to the …show more content…
girl in the painting because she wasn’t part of the norm, she was hurt by people but she still did not give in to their demands. Sometimes it’s hard being different because it means standing out but, accepting and making ourselves happy will always be more fulfilling than any outside influence.
It’s not always possible to be accepted but still be different specially when we are constantly being hurt. Amanda Palmer is similar to the girls in the painting in the sense that they are extremely noticeable. Amanda dressed as an eight-foot bride at a park and the girl in the painting would be considered exotic due to her looks however, what makes them both alike is the way they allowed all the assumptions about them to fall away. Their actions allowed them to make room for their happiness for a change. People will never stop hurting because we are all different but what we can make sure of is that our joy never becomes second priority to another’s
expectation. At the end of the day we can only try to make an impact on those close to us so that our memory would live in through them because no matter how hard we try to please everyone what one person wants will not be what another person wants. Conflicts not only occur because people are so different but because jealousy is a powerful emotion that blinds us and causes us to hurt others with our words. The only thing we can do is try to live for ourselves and what brings us joy. There is only so much we can do for another person so we shouldn’t live for them or we will lose what really matters to us.
Everyone has once been someone that they aren’t necessarily ashamed of, but something they aren’t anymore. When you’re in school, everyone is different; between the popular kids, the jocks, the cheerleader, the dorks, the Goths, and all the other “types” of people. In “Her Kind,” Anne Sexton shows that she has been a lot of different women, and she is not them now. In this paper we will be diving into the meanings behind the displaced “I,” the tone and reparation, and who Anne Sexton really is and how that affects what she is trying to let people see through this poem.
High school can be a place full of cliques and groups of friends but some people aren’t always in cliques. If there is a person who doesn’t always like the same things as other people they might not fit in with a group of people. In high school a person may become different and not find a group of friends that they fit in with. With no group of friends a person in high school may start to become an outcast. Laurie Halse Anderson, the author of Speak used Melinda to show that any high school student can become an outcast.
The girl is healthy, intelligent, and strong. However, society can not see past her physical imperfection and see her inner perfection. The preconception that outer beauty reflects the inner beauty, was society cursing her. Society tells her to "play coy" and "exercise, diet, smile and wheedle" . She hears and interprets it to mean that she is nothing but a "fat nose on thick legs".
By analyzing both paintings, it proves to show how the differences in artistic approach still demonstrate an analogous theme of depression.
“As a young girl, I already knew the standards for a girl like me” is one of the most poignant lines in Kiri Davis’ respectively titled A Girl Like Me. The line itself is a strong punch to the standards we hold black women specifically in our society, with a sour aftertaste. Throughout the film there are plenty of other jabs involving stereotypes and standards of beauty. One of them being the retelling of how darker shades of black women felt the need to bleach their skin, even at the age of six, to try to fit a mold of black beauty. With these toxic standards of beauty in place, a six-year-old and a twenty-five-year-old can share the same bias that society ingrained in them. They can even say they love themselves—except for the color/shade
Society, especially western, tends to conceptualize beauty through the use of publicity and cinema. We are under constant bombardment from consumer related magazine ads, billboards, television commercials, and movies about what “beautiful” people look like and how we should imitate them. This standard is overwhelmingly portrayed as a white beauty standard. Starting from a very young age this standard of beauty is created in our minds. We want to look like these actors and models; we want to be thin, fit, youthful looking, a symmetrical face and even have a particular race. We accept this beauty standard; we notice our various faults among ourselves and self-critique. We try to emulate the models as best we can; we forget that these standards are not reality. Publicity models and the most popular actors do not represent the majority of us and it is a foolish and unattainable dream to attempt to change ourselves to their beauty. The pressure society puts on us can cause low self-esteem and diseases such as anorexia. But we must look at the antithesis of society’s conception of this white standard, our minorities. Portraying this beauty standard to the polar opposites is more than racist. It is destructive to the minority community in that it creates resentment, low self-esteem, and a perverse hierarchy where minorities judge themselves and others on their proximity to the white beauty standard. In The Bluest Eye, Morrison critiques the white beauty standard that causes the black minority to feel a destructive self-hatred towards themselves and their fellow blacks because their self-perception is an unrealistic and unattainable beauty seen in publicity and films. This research paper’s aim is to present the influence of ...
As you walk down the street, you see posters and billboards surrounding that one person you think you may want to be. In a society that is filled to the brim with persuasion and propaganda, it is common that people forget who they are and become someone else. The desire of popularity causes misconceptions and a sense of self that is not sure of itself, leading to the question “Who am I?” Being yourself can come easier than you think just by recognizing that it is you. Not by being someone you see on the billboard, your friends, or who you see on television. Yourself is who you really are. In the story “Two Kinds” by Amy Tan, conflict between a mother and daughter causes identity and individualistic problems. A mother tries to relive her life through her daughter by pushing her to do things she may not be capable of doing. The mother believes that her daughter will have it all in America: success, fame, and wealth. The daughter loses herself and identity by focusing on becoming the person her
Although the girl went to the extreme to show the young man who she could be, I think that if he truly did love her he would have been able to revert back to the way he saw her before. She was not the only one playing the game, he changed the way he treated her too, and she was able to switch back to the way she saw him and longed for him to love her again. When she showed him her metamorphic character, he fell out of love with her completely. I did not think this was fair to the girl, she saw an disfigured side of him and embarrassed her when she tried to end the
Growing up I know everyone has got the speech about accepting who they are and believing in themselves, however today everybody feels a sense of insecurity with the way the media stereotypes how they should be in order to be the best. When we turn on our computers and televisions we see people with perfect hair, shiny new cars, Louis Vutton shopping bags, and models for significant other. When we see these combinations, we say or think things like, “If I had that car, everyone would notice me, I mean I would have invites to everything and I’d just have the perfect life.” This is something that’s we have all down, and because of who we are, we then feel less than those who we admire. Well in the midst of the media’s constant shower of stereotypes I remember what my aunt said and gave me. Some time ago my aunt gave me a sterling sliver charm bracelet that features a locket box, a diamond star, and a compass.
What do you see when you walk down your high school hallway? Many people will notice cliques, couples, and reclusive beings hidden behind their binder-occupied arms. Where do you fit in society? Are you the judging or the judged, the observer or the observed, or are you exactly who you want to be? Our culture has become increasingly commercialized, the influence of the media on people's identities and how they perceive themselves has become a tremendous force. Ralph Waldo Emerson wrote more than 150 years ago, “To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” As I further describe Emerson's statement, I will explain how qualities, credulousness, and freedom are vital structures
Beauty is a subjective due to what pleases society. The way in which appearance is viewed is determined by what our culture deems “normal.” This controversial discussion of what exactly beauty is, is explored throughout the texts “The Birthmark and “Eye of the Beholder.” The contrasting views of the cultural norm of beauty’s evident as characters get ostracized due to their natural features. A similar process, however, can be found in both examples to deal with the nuisance of different looking people. Either they
Being an adolescent is a difficult time. In the case study Ashley is so concerned with her appearance and how her peers see her that she is constantly late for class which lands her in a debate class. In chapter 3, that middle school students typically conform to what their peers are doing. Ashley is only 14 so she hasn’t quite developed a sense of self in regards to her appearance, and she is acting in a way that most of her peers are probably behaving.
Several women were chosen to give their most honest description of their appearances, but the final results are not what you would think. Each woman would describe herself to an artist who was sitting behind a curtain, unable to see her; he then drew a picture based on her description of herself. Dove then asked a random guy to go into the room with the artist, and give his description of how the woman looked to him. The artist drew both portrayals of the exact same woman, yet she wasn’t the same in the pictures. The stranger’s perspective of her was brighter, happier, and beautiful. The image the artist drew based on the woman’s portrayal of herself was dull, dark, and sad looking. Real Beauty Sketches video received over 114 million views only a month after its release, and people have become so supportive towards the vision Dove is trying to create. How negatively portrayed this young lady was just shows that we are more beautiful than we think we are, and our negatives self-views can sometimes alter how we describe ourselves to one
Sadly, societies have narrowed down the appreciation of beauty to only visual sense, but we forget that the inside of a person can also determine their real beauty. We tend to judge others' quickly and harshly merely based on their appearance. For example, a guy with black skin, thick beard, and big muscles are considered violent and fiery. Another man is seen as cute and trustworthy because he has white skin and a baby face. Those judgments are unfair because we do not get to know their real inner side. A beautiful looking person with an ugly personality is repulsive. Time will soon age his or her outer beauty. They cannot reserve their youth forever, even with plastic surgery. That person's ugly personality chases away the people around him or her. As a result, he or she will end up being ugly from inside out. In contrast, a not good looking person with a beautiful heart is beautiful. Personality and morality define Inner beauty. They express their inner self by caring and loving other people. Their inner beauty attracts and creates long lasting bonds with others. Inner beauty is always young, so it covers a person's aged looking. Despite being old, a person with a great personality will always feel beautiful and happy because they will find others who are willing to love and care for them in return. They use their success to do charity work in their community. Namely, Taylor Swift has an ideal body and is a successful singer at a young age. She does not let her outer appearance cover up her inner beauty. She received the Ripple of Hope Award for donating $4 million to the Country Hall of Fame Museum and topped many lists as the most charitable celebrity for her work with children who have cancer. Many of her fans around the world admire her not just her talents but by her
Our modern day culture places a large emphasis on appearance and tends to push other human qualities aside. This results in alienation and ridicule for certain individuals that don’t fit these strict criteria. Certain groups may argue that this kind of behavior is unacceptable because it 's seen as negative reinforcement. While others may argue that this kind of societal interaction is basic human nature. Whichever it may be, social pressures can in certain rare cases lead to positive outcomes. One such case helped change me for the better. Throughout the last couple of years of my life, I 've learned and lived by the notion that setting your mind on something and working hard toward that goal will yield significant results.