Pink Stilettos: Balancing Femininity and Independence

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Her favorite color is pink. As a child, she spent days playing with dolls and kitchen sets, and in her adolescence she perfected the art of makeup. Today, she is a mother of two and wife to an adoring husband. Upon first glance, this girl seems to be the epitome of the female gender role. However, a look behind her feminine surface reveals a strong and independent woman. Her stiletto heels may be pink, but in them she walks with pride, her head held high, and her warm, wide smile radiating confidence. Though she considers her part-time job as a mother to be her greatest achievement, she has also found success in her career as an entrepreneur. This woman is no specific person, but rather a representation of many modern American women who balance …show more content…

Some staunch opponents of gender roles might claim that her more feminine traits are a result of gendered advertising and thus are negative and hindering progress. Yet by making such a statement, they fail to recognize the great leaps in progress society has made in reducing the importance of adhering to one’s assigned role. Gender roles have existed since the dawn of human civilization, and though recent advertising trends have increased their prevalence in society, they are less influential now than at any point in human history.
Gendered advertisements fill most of the timeslots between children’s television programs. Those marketed toward girls typically feature calm and cooperative activities like playing house and dressing dolls whereas commercials aimed at boys depict aggressive competition, from car races to water gun battles. It is undeniable that gendered advertisements have some effect on children and their perceptions of …show more content…

Children are gullible not only to commercials but to their parents, as they are instructed from the beginning of their lives to believe every word their mother and father say. It is reasonable, then, to link gender roles more closely with parental teachings than the bright pinks and blues of television advertisements and plastic toys. While gendered toys and television commercials may influence children’s adherence to gender roles, it is up to their parents to control whether or not their child follows or rejects the stereotypes. As written by Maria Guido (2014), “The truth is, our children are more attentive to us – their parents – than their toys” (para. 6). Most children will not care whether or not their toy is ‘for boys’ or ‘for girls’ unless a parent has forbidden them from playing with it. Parents have a strong hand in the game of gender roles; they can push their children to adhere to them or allow their children to behave how they wish. With each generation, fewer parents play the stereotype card; they allow their children to adapt traits without pressuring them to conform to a certain predetermined role. There are, of course, still parents who force their children to adhere to strict gender roles. However, with each generation, the number of such parents decreases. This is just one of many positive trends in prevalence of gender roles in society

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