Gender Reflection Paper

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Even though my gender was not determined by myself when I was born, but growing up it was not difficult for me to acknowledge and display it as female. I came to realize that there are only two categories of gender, which are male and female and these two forms have significant roles in society. Born and raised in West Africa, where culture and tradition influence individual’s life, I observed gender situation in everyday lives. Gender was translated into forms of roles and activities which automatically said a lot about one’s identity. One of the activities influenced by gender is seen through occupation, job or profession. Occupation varies depending on one’s socio-economic background and it includes, but not limited to farming, trading, hunting housekeeping, doctor, nurse, teaching, and sewing. In West Africa traditional society, occupation has a specific organizational context. In this paper, gender will encompass a variety of meanings. I will be taking into consideration institution; religion, family, culture and ethnicity to be some of the social forces that helped construct and enact my notion of femininity.
Cultural institution shaped my gender identity. In my culture, traditional beliefs concerning sex roles or more recently gender roles are based on the assumption that women’s position in society is less appreciated than men’s. I was surrounded by this long standing belief which as a result created gender discrimination, domestic violence and other types of injustice against women. I came from a royal family where my grandfather, a king, had nine wives, and thirty-five kids. I notice in the family that my grandfather’s daughters comprise a greater number compared to men, but they remained underrepresented in terms of so...

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...matter of fact, I found the feminine walk bizarre and absurd.
Religious belief shaped my gender identity. The reverend of our church constantly reminded women to grow their hair long as a covering whereas men need short hair. Another belief religion taught me was how gender role should be cleared and defined. All these restrictions explain the nature of male and female identities within the congregation. Other perspective we see the influence of religion on my identity is through dresses. Women are advised to dress appropriately and never wear trousers or pants in public. Pants are strictly for men and that is a way to differentiate men from women. So when a woman wears pants, church members view her as deviant and a rebellious individual who will challenge men’s and religious’ authorities. The church views those approaches and behaviors to be against God’s order.

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