Gender Identity In Everyday Life

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Identities are an important part of the human experience. One of the many identities that creates a person is gender. Society, being the entity establishing social norms and social roles, plays a part in effecting the individual’s gender, and how they choose to express themself. The underlying or overlying identities also have the same effect. Gender is not only an identity, it is a lifestyle inside and out. Gender, like race, class, and sexuality; is not limited to the binary scale, and that is normal, natural, and human. The concept of gender is man-made, but it forces one’s hand to analyze the thought processes behind an individual's perception on gender through self, through society, or through the dichotomy and/or correspondence of the …show more content…

Gender Theory in Everyday Life”, the various definitions of “trans” depict that it is not possible to place one’s gender into only two categories. In the definitions of “trans”, transformation or transitioning is a common theme. Transforming into their true self or transitioning from one gender to the other. In the third definition, transgendered individuals are seen as transcending gender, thus making gender non-existent; not only to them, but when they view other individuals (Kessler and McKenna 1-2). The individuals in “When Girls Will Be Boys”, had to create a safe space, and find allies that would provide them with resources to help them in their progression as a trans individual. Trans people truly want to be integrated into society, but they are cognisant of the social standards in place that make them othered (Quart 49-50). In the instance of the varied definition of trans and the experiences of people in “When Girls Will Be Boys”, they are all going against the social norms and actively fighting to create a seat at the table. They refuse to to fit in the status quo of accepting that there are only two genders, and one must stay in either category. Instead, they challenge that thinking by being themself, thus having a hand in creating the new norm. These individuals are not passively combating the misconceptions, miseducation, and misinformation. They are actively creating a space for others and themself to grow in self and in …show more content…

This is especially true in their ideology of what gender is, and how it should “properly” be presented. There are those who choose to be gender non-conforming or genderless or abide by gender norms, but in the end doing gender cannot be avoided (West and Zimmerman 70-71). Gender is part of the individual, but it also impacts society. In turn society impacts the individual. Avoiding gender will not solve the issue of inequality or discrimination, but developing a true understanding of various gender expression will make everyone more open to the idea of variance (West and Zimmerman 70-72). The “natural attitude” is the acceptance of the social norms that influence the idea of gender as fact. The ideas are as follows: 1. There are methods to determine if one’s “true” gender is one of the two 2. Gender is biology. Biology is science. Science is fact. Any other ideas are opinions 3. It is impossible for one to change their gender 4. Genitalia equates to gender expression. Trans people’s “real” gender is who they were before surgery. Intersex individual’s “real” gender is who they are after surgery (Kessler and McKenna 2). The concept of gender, as well as the “natural attitude” are socially constructed and blatantly discriminatory and contradictory. Kyriarchy is the system in place in many facets of life that are meant to keep oppressed groups in a state of

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