Essay On Expression Of Individuality

There are many reasons for wanting to control another person’s expression of individuality. Controlling other person means imposing our view of the world, the way we do thing, and how we feel about them. Some of those reasons can be good and others can be bad. There are individual who takes advantage of a close and loving relationship to meet their our needs, without caring at all the feelings of the other person. Controlling others can also be abused and can cause serious damage or can terminate a relationship before getting what he/she wants. On the other hand, controlling can be seen as how to convince others to agree with your point of view. Therefore, with the right methods, we can change the attitudes of people, without losing their respect

Relative to men, women go on living a life, without questioning why she is condemned to live in that situation. Due to this, during the first 18 years of my life I feld a strong impulse to control another person’s expression of individuality, especially controlling my sister and aunt. I am certain that is was not with a bad intention; however, I was acting just as my society by trying to impose my view of the world of them. Being surrounding be oppressive religious and social practices, I had a strong desire to know and be more that what society had already established for me. I think education is vital in life; therefore, we all should have a right to receive it. Being able to convey our families, our friends the knowledge we have acquired is definitely something my our drive. However, this does fault into the standard of living in my family. The established law for women in my family is to adopted a good last name after marriage. This created a materialistic society, in which your life should be based on what how you look despite not having the financial needs have this lifestyle. I constantly argued and got myself into serious trouble for trying to convince my sister that there was another way of life. I will always tell my little sister that as women, we had choices and opportunities. As I try to pull myself out of my our society, I was also trying to convince my sister to do the same thing. I was so desparate and focus to give her a better life to the point of her own expression of individuality. During this time, I forgot to listen to her and what a good life met for her. My sister 's idea of a human well-being differ from my own; therefore, I limit her of freedom of expression. For me a good life is composed of seeking opportunities to improve our lives in a positive way and focus on what is really