Dress Code Violations In Schools

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I remember being in seventh grade and being stopped by a faculty member of my school. They asked me to take off my cardigan and when I did so, they informed me that my outfit was in violation of the school dress code due to the fact that my shirt had a spaghetti strap, regardless of the fact that I was still covering it up. They took me out of class to go to the office and still had the nerve to call my mother during her busy work hours to ask her if she could bring me a change of clothes. When my mom told them that she was not able to, they asked if anyone could pick me up, she said no again. They then decided to make me wear this huge, bright green shirt with ‘dress code violation’ written on it. I remember being so humiliated, in tears, …show more content…

It teaches young girls that they are responsible for keeping young boys’ minds at ease. That the way they dress is more important than their education. That what they are wearing, is a more important topic for the public to discuss than finding the predator of their assault. Not only is this highly sexists, but it promotes rape culture. As Luke Harms points out, “It’s the same culture in which college orientations teach freshmen women tips for not getting raped instead of teaching freshmen men not to rape. It’s the same culture that blames and shames victims and of sexual assault into silence, instead of bringing the perpetrators to justice. It’s the same culture that sees women’s bodies as objects to be controlled as means to men’s ends,” (Mutuality). School dress codes are where all of this ideology thrives. “Some of our most powerful and lasting ideas about the world around us are learned at school. Hard work pays off. Success comes from working together. Girls’ bodies are dangerous and harassment is inevitable. This might sound inflammatory, but it is not an exaggeration. It is the overriding message being sent to thousands of students around the world by sexist school dress codes and the way in which they are enforced,” (Bates, Laura. Time). Also noted by Laura Bates, “When a school takes the decision to police female students’ bodies while turning a blind eye to boy’s behavior, it sets up a lifelong assumption that sexual violence is inevitable and victims are partially responsible,” (Time). This is where it ends. No more silencing victims because their clothes are revealing. No more blaming women for being physically and emotionally assaulted. No more defending the monsters who

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