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Dowry system in india.
*Dr.Y.ASHOK KUMAR
Co-ordinator & Assistent Professor
Department of sociology and social work
**KONGALA.RAMARAO
Junior research fellow.
Department of sociology and social work .

Introduction: Dowry system was unknown in early times. In rich and royal families gifts used to be given son-in-law at the time of marriage .It appears the dowry system came into vogue when child marriages became the order of the day, from about 200 AD to secure a very desirable match the father of the girl. Often spent much more than what he could afford and ensured the marriage of the daughter within pre puberty period .dowry is a deep rooted social evil.
The ramayana of Tulasi das mention about the dowry system than prevalent, gold, jewels …show more content…

Department of sociology and social work .

Introduction: Dowry system was unknown in early times. In rich and royal families gifts used to be given son-in-law at the time of marriage .It appears the dowry system came into vogue when child marriages became the order of the day, from about 200 AD to secure a very desirable match the father of the girl. Often spent much more than what he could afford and ensured the marriage of the daughter within pre puberty period .dowry is a deep rooted social evil.
The ramayana of Tulasi das mention about the dowry system than prevalent, gold, jewels shawls, Elephants, horses, cows with gifted horns and hoofs, servants and immovable property like land and houses were are gifted away as dowry, villages also given as dowry.
A religious gift was a companied by gift in cash or gold. The amount was nominal one for long time in ordinary families anything resembling the present enormous dowry system therefore did not exist. Though Brahmins have been following this practice for centuries, dowry never reached the enormous proportions that one finds among other castes.
Definition of the dowry (oxford dictionary): property or money brought by a bride to her husband on their

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