Dissonance In The Kite Runner

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Cognitive dissonance is a psychological concept appointed to the mental discomfort experienced by individuals whose behaviors, attitudes and beliefs are unaligned. Due to the conflict within them, these individuals often decide to change one aspect of the aforementioned to match with the others. This explains the need to seek redemption, as the individual’s past behaviors fail to match their evolved mindset and ethical values. By accomplishing redemption, an individual is able to restore balance, therefore alleviating stress. The Kite Runner, a powerful novel written by Khaled Hosseini, chronicles the life of Amir, the narrator, through his betrayal, guilt and redemption. At the age of 12, Amir witnesses the sexual harassment of his loyal friend …show more content…

After Rahim Khan reveals many secrets to Amir regarding his childhood and what occurred after he fled to America, he asks Amir to retrieve Sohrab from Kabul. When Amir agrees, he suggests for Amir to stay with him in Peshawar for a few more days so that they are able to carefully map out his travel plan. Amir worries that he will convince himself to leave Pakistan and return to America. After deliberation, Amir claims, "I [am] afraid…that I [will] wade back into that great big river and let myself forget…I [am] afraid that [I will] let these waters carry me away from what I [have] to do. From Hassan. From the past that [has] come calling. And from this one last chance at redemption" (243). Amir is able to think logically, and based on his previous experiences, realizes that he has a tendency to flee from uncomfortable situations, as can be seen when he witnesses Hassan’s rape. This time, Amir displays responsibility and determination through his choice to leave before he has a chance to change his mind, a result of maturity. His decision to confront his past and stop running from the guilt that is preventing him from enjoying his life allows Amir to start his journey towards redemption. In addition, when visiting his childhood home after 26 years, Amir is visibly upset by the sight but still wishes to proceed. Farid senses his discomfort and attempts to offer advice. Before returning, Amir converses with Farid: “‘Just forget it all. Makes it easier…’ Farid said. ‘I don't want to forget anymore,’” (276). Amir’s response to Farid’s comment confirms his willpower to put an end to his guilt and to face his past bravely. This shows that Amir is no longer ignoring his history but instead is acknowledging that it happened and actively trying to change himself for his betterment. Both his response to Rahim Khan’s plea to stay longer and his answer to

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