Difference Between Love Marriage And Arranged Marriage

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Today, I will share with you a story of struggles; my story. It’s an argument between getting an arranged marriage, and a love marriage. I know, it sounds silly, right? It might seem like a petty argument, but trust me, it’s not. Marriages each have different reasons behind them, leading to certain decisions, however, each decision comes with its own conclusion, be it good or bad. I, personally, would favour an arranged marriage based solely upon all of its benefits; for example, we, the children don’t have to worry about arranging/preparing anything, but we still have control over who we want to marry, so the marriage is not forced, contrary to popular belief. I will present the argument between the traditional arranged marriage, and the unorthodox love marriage. So, without further ado, will you pick the ideal marriage?
Firstly, the couples in an arranged marriage tend to have both mutual respect and a high level of adjustment, due to the fact that they …show more content…

This does not put any pressure upon the couple or their families, as arranged marriages are extremely traditional. However, in a love marriage, the two individuals, more times than not, try to find their significant other based upon what society classifies as ‘hot’, which indicates that the two people who get together may only be perfect in society’s eyes. The couple, while dating, may not discuss much about each other lives, and talk more about their likes/dislikes on a short term basis, which may result in many altercations; the couple may not share any common interests, ideas, religions, or beliefs. This leads to quick break-ups, only weeks after the start of their relationship, or even divorces in their married life. Would you like to be in several short term relationships, or one long term relationship with someone who you will learn to love

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