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In the play The Miracle Worker by William Gibson, there are characters who change throughout the play as a result of how they cope with adversity. The purpose of this essay is to testify to how one specific character has changed as a result of their problem, and how they coped with their adversity. In the play The Miracle Worker by William Gibson, James Keller, faces the challenge of getting his father’s attention and copes by acting and speaking out.
James’ mother passed away when he was young, and after his father got remarried, James faced the obstacle of getting his father’s attention and affection. After James makes a remark at the breakfast table, his father angrily replies, “You be quiet! I’m badgered enough here by females without your impudence.” (pg 257) James and his father are constantly arguing about anything and everything. James was jealous of the attention
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Helen receives, and bitter that his father doesn’t mention his mother anymore. In outrage, James says to his father, “My God don’t you know? Everything you forgot, when you forgot my mother.” (pg 296) James wasn’t ready to accept Kate as his mother, and despite his father’s wishes for them to be a normal family, it was a very awkward relationship between James and Kate as they were only 11 years apart. Every character copes with their adversities differently and James deals with his father by acting and speaking out.
Everyone in the Keller household ignores him and tells him to be quiet, leaving him even more bitter. When his family ends up angry at him for not informing them Annie was locked in her room, James retorts with, “Well everyone’s been telling me not to say anything.” (pg 272) James feels he can do nothing right by his father, and eventually gives up trying. To Annie he says, “That she isn’t. That there’s such a thing as-dullness of heart. Acceptance. And letting go. Sooner or later we all give up, don’t we?” (pg 294) Towards the end of the play however, James changes and evolves, and stands up to his father. James had started to keep all of his feelings towards his father inside, and finally he stood up for himself, and for Annie, and put his father in his place. James said, “She’s right. Kate’s right, I’m right, and you’re wrong. If you drive her away from here it will be over my dead-chair, has it never occurred to you that on occasion you might be consummately wrong?” (pg
313) In the play The Miracle Worker by William Gibson, James Keller, faces the challenge of getting his father’s attention and copes by acting and speaking out. James changed for the better, by finally having the strength to confront his father, and stand up for himself. Overall, James may not have had the biggest change of all the characters in the Keller household, but his was one of the most significant.
He was offered a “Club cap” but James “gave it back” to his friend, Kris. They waited until Kris left the apartment building, then played a game of checkers. James had wanted to fit in with his friends in the “K-Bones” club but had realized that his brother was more important. He pushed his friend away to play games with Isaac. Furthermore, James has to “take care of” Isaac when his mother is at work. Even when he is trying to fit in with a devious club, he would still “hold Isaac’s hand” or even “carry him home”. James is a very nice and caring brother. This is logical because, that is what a good brother should look like. James must truly love Isaac as his brother, and admires his family more than his
In the Miracle speech, the coach is using pathos to get to the player’s heart and wanted them to win by saying : “ Tonight, we are the greatest team in the world. You were born to be hockey players--every one of you, and you were meant to be here tonight” . He puts pressure on them for being the best team that they can be, for them to shut down the Soviet’s team. He speaked aggressive so the players would want to push their capability of playing, and for the players to put in their head that they’re the best so that they won’t give up in the game. Moreover, the coach want to put the team in the situation that they have to beat the Soviet’s team by using pathos when he said: “ This is your time. Their time is done. It’s over. I’m sick and tired
Nearly everyone has a dream in life that they desperately want to accomplish. Without these dreams people wouldn’t strive to accomplish what makes them happy. Sometimes happiness might be hard to reach because of obstacles faced in life. The obstacles which one faces and how they can overcome them are remarked in Anne Lauren’s Carter short story “Leaving the Iron Lung”. In order for the author to show that one must overcome faced obstacles to pursue their dreams, she uses the protagonist transformation, contrasting characters and settings.
Unknown, to James at this point he did not realize that he was having a problem with a psychological theory called behaviorism. Now this theory is one that is saying human behavior is developed through learning experiences which in this case would apply to James. His behavior as an adult was reflected by the way he was treated as a kid by his father and mother because they fought all the time. They never truly paid any attention to him, which in terms taught him how to stay out of their way and learn how to steal and burglarize places without getting caught. Therefore, within the psychological theory of behaviorism Behaviorists saw crime as something that is a learned response to life’s situations such as James situation which led him to a life of crime because of his parents. Although, he was never truly mistreated, he did not receive his father attention due to the fact of the way his father was treated as a child growing up an abusive household. Therefore, he did not want to place his son in the same situation. There is also the fact that James could be suffering from the psychodynamic theory which says that a person’s personality can be controlled by their unconscious mental process and that is grounded in them in early childhood. These entire things such as the id, ego, and superego
Tom is a young man bearing the responsibility of his handicapped sister, Laura, and his suffocating mother, Amanda. He works in a factory, and uses his paycheck to provide for the family. Jim, a fellow factory worker and former high school friend, knows Tom as Shakespeare, in that Tom writes poetry, sometimes to alleviate his suppressed feelings of frustration. Poetry is one of Tom’s methods of escape from the lunacy in his home. Adventure is something Tom does not experience much of, and is angst toward his less than mediocre life is expressed in many of his arguments with Amanda.
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James's brother Bob and two friends, Julie and Kirk, come to visit him at the clinic. They bring him presents: cigarettes, chocolate, clothes, and books. They watch some football together and then go for a walk in the woods, where they meet Lilly and her grandmother. Bob, Julie, and Kirk urge James to try and get better and give him a list of people who have asked about him. Lilly is a girl that James meets in the clinic although he has little to no contact with her besides fleeting visits that they chance every here and there. The next day James's new job is making coffee for the group, a clear sign that he has progressed and moved further up the clinic ladder. James's psychology test results reveal that he is highly intelligent and angry and has low self-esteem. Joanne, (his therapist) tries to convince him to accept the Twelve Step program, which is solely accountable for the success rate of the facility, but James refuses.
In many short stories, characters face binding situations in their lives that make them realize more about themselves when they finally overcome such factors. These lively binding factors can result based on the instructions imposed by culture, custom, or society. They are able to over come these situations be realizing a greater potential for themselves outside of the normality of their lives. Characters find such realizations through certain hardships such as tragedy and insanity.
One decision is all it takes in the life of a person to go from one path to another. The decision can be a good one and affect one’s life in a positive manner or a decision can be a poor one and result in negative effects. In Arthur Miller’s play The Crucible, Abigail Williams and John Proctor make life altering decisions. Willy Loman, the main character in The Death of a Salesman also written by Arthur Miller, makes a decision that will change his life. This paper will examine the life changing decisions made by the characters in these books, the reasons behind their decisions, and the consequences of their decisions for their lives.
Someone who has poor mental health has symptoms that are also known as depression. People feel that without forgiveness they will never be good enough in life. The study showed that self-compassion and the relationship between lack of forgiveness and depression drastically changed. The relationship was stronger for those who had low self-esteem. “Globally, depression is a common mental illness and one of the leading causes of disability at all ages (World Health Organization (WHO), 2015.)” (Halvorsrud 170). This article is related to Death of a Salesman because Willy believed his family would always be there for him regardless of his actions. At the end of the play when Willy passed away no one showed up to his funeral. At the beginning of the play he was cocky. Willy told his sons about all of the friends he had and how much he was appreciated. Throughout the play he slowly becomes confused and depressed throughout the play driving his family away. Today, medicine has been developed in order to help this condition, but during this it wasn’t as common. Historical criticism plays an important role in this article because during the time period the play was written in affects how Willy’s depression was handled. If Willy would have had the medicine we have today his life might have been
James was an authoritarian parent. He was controlling, in-charge and no one questioned him. He would play the role of the doting father. When his children made mistakes, he made a point to criticize them. He often compared them to other kids that he felt were “more perfect.” When his often unspoken expectations were not met he would yell and scream striking fear into his entire family. “He’s not a warm, fuzzy kind of guy, and he’s not going to inspire feelings of intimacy. But when his system works, he can boast about one thing: His recruits tend to obey” (Dewar).
...n her mind is more important than his words. It is an example of the patriarchal society that they live in; although he is her father and has the parental power over her he would most likely not speak to a son in such a demeaning tone. He makes her seem to be slow, as if she cannot carry on a conversation or listen to him, which is quite demeaning.
The play “Everyman” is about a complacent Everyman who is informed by Death of his approaching end. The play shows the hero’s progression from despair and fear of death to a “Christian resignation that is the prelude to redemption.” Throughout the play Everyman is deserted by things that he thought were of great importance portrayed by characters that take the names of the things they represent.
In the play, Cat on a Hot Tin Roof, Tennessee Williams criticizes the ways people manipulate their lives through repression to avoid breaking social code. The foundations of the weak relationships between characters are based around manipulations of the truth in order to create a certain image in society. It leads to tension between characters that become disgusted with one another as well as themselves.