Is bullying an issue among today’s teens? According to the website, Bullying Statistics, bullying focuses on making someone feel inadequate, & not good enough, or belittling someone else. Merriam-Webster states that bullying is “abuse and mistreatment of someone vulnerable by someone stronger, more powerful, etc.” All websites or dictionaries are basically going to say the same thing, but bullying is becoming an issue among today’s teens, and until recently society hasn’t paid that much attention to it. Some more information from Bullying Statistics is that here are many different types of bullying, there’s cyber, physical, emotional, & verbal. Bullying is active and is done with full intent to bring someone else down, and to belittle them. …show more content…
Bullying is more common among younger teens than older teens, because as they get older they mature more and seem to grow out of it. Do Something said that almost 160,000 teens are skipping school everyday because of bullying. This may be because parents are not involved or they feel alone and think they have no other options. By the age of 14 less than 30% of boys, and 40% of girls will talk to their peers about bullying, and this is part of the problem with today’s society, people are not addressing the issues and talking about them to try and improve circumstances. 90% of 4th-8th graders report that they have been or are victims of bullying. 1 in 10 students drop-out of school because of repeated bullying. As boys get older they become less sympathetic towards bullying and are more likely to add to the problem. Kids Health also says that thousands of teens wake up everyday afraid to even go to school. Bullying is an issue that affects millions of students. Bullying at this age usually has something to do with appearance and/or social status. But back to the different types of …show more content…
Sometimes cyber bullying can meet the definition of cyber harassment or cyberstalking, which is a crime that an have serious legal consequences and even involve jail time. As long as teens have access to a phone, computer, or other device they are at risk. Severe, long-term, and frequent cyberbullying can leave both the bully and the victim at a higher risk for anxiety, depression, feelings of sadness and loneliness. The victim will most likely have a change in his/her sleeping and eating patterns, and loss of interest in activities they used to enjoy. Sometimes if and when the situation is bad enough and the teen has not seeked someone out to talk to or to help them, they will turn to suicide. Suicide is the second leading cause of death in ages 12-18. In most cases a teenager is not going to advocate for themselves and seek help when they are going through something and it’s especially if they’re dealing with bullying. There are ways to help with bullying - offer support, comfort, let them know they are not alone, and that it’s not their fault, be
Bullying has become a major problem facing the United States today. The American Psychological Association reports that roughly 40% to 80% of children are involved in bullying on some level during their time in school. (APA, 2014) The magnitude of the problem can be observed in the statistics. In the United States, a total of 4,080,879 children between the ages of five and 18 have been the victims of bullying compared to 3,892,199 who have reported that they have engaged in bullying someone else. Additionally, 851,755 said that they have been both the victim and the bully. That's a whopping 8,824,833 people in the United States that have been involved in bullying behavior on one level or another. (High, B., 2000 Census)
Not only is it already hard to be a teenager, but having to deal with constant teasing and harassment is just something no one needs. There is a point in life where bullying can become so terrifying that students will rather stay at home than have to face their bully. Darnell “Dynasty” Young is a 17 year old gay teen who has gone through every possible way to stop his bullies from harassing him. His mother has tried everything but hasn’t been able to put a stop to it. Until one day, Young’s mother bought Darnell a stun gun. His mother told him to bring it to school and when the bullies began to torment him to take it out. He did just that, he did not actually shoot anyone he just waved it up in the air to intimidate his bullies. He not only got suspended but he also got arrested, yet the six boys teasing him and calling him names received no punishment whatsoever. (CNN) Young is one of the many kids that go through this type of abuse in a place where they should feel safe. This is an example of the school failing to do anything to prevent this kind of behavior, even after the parents try to intervene. This is also a great example of parents failing to implement high behavior standards by enforcing them to retaliate. Parents should be there to advice a peaceful way of resolving this in a non violent way not give them the weapon. By implementing prevention programs such as activities that help fight bullying can ultimately lead to the end of this horrific thing some kids face each day.
Schools want to violate your civil rights! Cyber bullying has been getting much attention recently and schools are being criticized for not taking action. There are three main reasons why schools should not limit students’ online speech: it violates our civil rights, it is exaggerated in size, it may result in more face-to-face bullying.
When parents and teacher understand the potential cause of why bullies decide to bully. They can make the decision to show their children that bullying isn 't right and could help to prevent bullying in the future. Studies show that “Over 77 percent of students have been bullied” ( No bullying.com).Before explaining why people bully, defining what a bully is, would be a helpful tool to know what bullying is. Bullying could be considered as purposefully taking control over someone through verbal abuse and physical abuse. Most verbal abuse starts with teasing or threats. Another type of abuse could be with such violence “Use superior strength or influence to intimidate (someone), typically to force him or her to do what one wants” (The free dictionary).
In Wonderland, a collection of poetry written by Matthew Dickman, there is an overall theme of suffering. Specifically in the two poems, Two A.M. and the second Wonderland poem. The first poem, Two A.M. is about a man who is reflecting on feelings of loneliness and loss at two am. As the poem progresses, he shows more vulnerability. For example, he specifically talks about all of the things that he has lost in his life, such as blood, a fight, and the rib that God gave him.
How can society possibly put an end to bullying, there can be as many sit downs with the children of today’s generation, but it is nearly impossible to put an end to this ongoing epidemic among the children of today. Many students are victims of bullying and not even half of the victims file reports against their attacker. Do Something, a Nationwide anti bullying organization said that “Over 3.2 million students are victims of bullying each year”. What can possibly be done to reduce and or possibly get rid of this number of students that are being bullied? The United States of America is currently fighting a war with bullying, and so far are losing. Although the number of state and federal laws against bullying have been increased, it seems that there have been more incidents that have not been heard about until it is far too late for something to be done.
Bullying has always been a problem within the past century and has become an epidemic. However, because of social media people are becoming more aware of the issues associated with bullying and how it has become a trend in today’s society. You turn on the news and you are hearing about kids being bullied and the end result is suicide. Bullying is occurring worldwide. Not only is it happening in our schools and social networks, but also in the work place. The various types of bullying that exist and the attempt to entirely eliminate them is not achievable because of individual and environmental factors.
Bullying is a growing concern in a society where status and exercising power over another human being are increasingly important in developing one’s social circles. Dan Olweus (Norwegian researcher and founder of the Olweus Bullying Prevention Program) defines it as an “aggressive behaviour that is intentional and that involves an imbalance of power. Most often, it is repeated over time” (Violencepreventionworks.org). School victimization is an especially delicate matter that has only really been in the public eye for the past half century, as more and more researchers and psychologists pointed out its short- and long-term negative effects on targeted individuals. It has since been widely investigated and numerous programs have been developed in an effort to address and prevent the many forms of bullying that exist today. The negative effects of such an abusive behaviour are various and can greatly differ from individual to individual. However, there are three main consequences that can be associated with school bullying, which are: school avoidance, depression/anxiety and even suicidal attempts.
Bullying has been a part of schooling for as long as children have been congregating. To some it seems like a natural, though uncomfortable, part of life and school experience, while to others it can mean terrifying experiences which spoiled and characterized otherwise happy years in school. Dan Olweus, a pioneer in bully behavior research documented that 2.7 million children are affected as victims, and that 2.1 children act as bullies (Fried, 1997, as cited in Aluedse, 2006). With bullying cited as the reason for violent, gun-related crime in the past few years, school districts as well as national governments have put anti-bullying policies in place. Bullying is a complicated phenomenon, involving more than one child demanding lunch money from a smaller child. It is a worldwide epidemic hitting schools everywhere. Virtually everyone has seen or experienced bullying. With technological advances, bullying is even hitting the internet. Parents, teachers, students and governments agencies alike are attempting to put a stop to bullying practices.
A recent report from the American Medical Association on a study of over 15,000 6th-10th graders estimates that approximately 3.7 million youths engage in, and more than 3.2 million are victims of, moderate or serious bullying yearly. It is further estimated that nearly 160,000 children in the United States are absent from school each day for fear of being bullied or picked on by other students. Source: National Education Association. “Bullying is
Bullying is an issue that has been around for decades and is something that can affect everyone, no matter what his or her age is. Even though bullying has changed over the years from being physical abuse and harassment that happens on the playgrounds of schoolyards to tormenting over the Internet. The same groups are still affected namely adolescents. Statistically about 30 percent of all teenagers in the United States are bullied in one-way or another (“Teenage Bullying”).
Bullying is a devastating issue that threatens the well-being of today’s youth. Those who are most likely at risk are those who; have a learning or physical disability i.g., autism or ADHD, are underweight or overweight, are gay/lesbian/transgendered, or speak a different language. Of course, there are no specific guidelines of who will become victims of bullying. Children who are bullied experience lower self-esteem, greater loneliness, greater anxiety, and more depression in addition to the already stressful adolescent years. The longer the bullying occurs the more profound the symptoms can become. As a low-level, subtle form of violence, bullying creates an unsafe school environment and can lead to more serious types of violence among students (Whitted & Dupper, 2005).
Bullying does not have a standard definition. Bullying can be anything from calling someone else names, beating them up just for the fun of it, to texting or messaging them on the internet or any mobile device. Any person can be the victim of bullying, not just children. Bullying causes many issues, physically, emotionally, and mentally, not only for the victim, but for their entire families as well. Bullies have many different reasons as to why they start bullying someone else. The actions done to the victim leaves them with only a few options on how to stop being bullied. How they handle it is always different.
Bullying is an issue that is a problem in society today. Bullying is any kind of unwanted behavior to an individual on repeated occasions which is a display of power over someone. Bullying is mainly common among students in school, and unfortunately, it happens in other places like at home between parents and children, and on rare occasions, among adults. When people began to identify bullying for what it is, it was only known as a physical aggression towards others, but over the course of time, bullying has moved from just physical bullying to verbal bullying, and power abuse in the workplace between co-workers in different ranks. In a book called Welfare Brat: A Memoir, Mary was bullied in school by boys on the streets, and unfortunately, she was verbally bullied by her mom. Bullying among children in the society is caused by different reasons, and affects its victims negatively.
“Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me.” These words have been repeated countless times, but they are not accurate. In truth, words can kill. Bullying has become a highlighted problem within our society, and bullying in the school systems is even more prominent. According to the news, there are countless cases of bullying, many of which do not have happy endings. The rates of suicide due to bullying are currently higher than they have ever been before. Suicide is the third top causes of death in young people within the United States, averaging at 4,400 deaths a year, with over 50% of these deaths as a result of some sort of bullying. Studies also show that there are 100 suicide attempts for every one successful suicide performed (“Bullying and Suicide”). These numbers are disturbingly high. Bullying is affecting more kids in ways that some adults may never understand. The fact that words and actions can lead to cutting and suicides is still a distant concept to some and needs to be brought to immediate attention. Laws are now being put into place to prevent these tragedies, but what is really being done to prevent them within the schools or even within the students’ homes? There is a lot of finger pointing when it comes to this topic. But we all want to know what the cause is behind this nationwide crisis and who is responsible for it.