Broken Relationship Recovery

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A recovery from a broken relationship first has to go through emotional stages with different levels such as from boredom, suffer, loneliness, confusion, to hurt, revenge or even suicide. The recovery process is also an expression of dissatisfaction when a person cannot achieving the goal he wants in sentiment. The most important stage in a recovery process is suffering. According to the study, the intense emotional pain can trigger the brain response, which is similar to when they encounter physical pain. Grief is one thing that cannot be avoided from a relationship. It is the law of nature and humans are forced to face. Shirk is not a good choice when time can be the medicine, which could heal all wounds either it is physical or emotional. …show more content…

In contrast, it is the easiest way to overcome a broken relationship. It is when the abandoned party has finally accepted the relation is over and is ready to begin a new life. After a nightmare, even though that person may not be totally awake, the old feelings already became a burden. At this point, the loneliness after a broken relationship is like the silence of oak after the sparrows flew away. The feeling after the acceptance will be like ease and "clean." Trying to soothe the pain after a broken relationship is an extremely difficult moment but it is also a normal and necessary thing. However, self-destructive behavior is a very foolish thing. The nature of humans is afraid of pain. Other than that, the actual pain is not as harmful as the pain that an individual torments himself. It is not a bad thing when experiencing the pain. A pain cannot be overcame if it is has not been experienced. Like most of the process, if one keeps embrace the sadness in his heart, it will stay indefinitely. In contrast, opening mind and heart to experience and confront the pain, it will be gradually pushed away from an individual's life. Parting is not necessarily a bad thing. It sometimes bringing even better opportunities for one's previous life. Therefore, when experience a broken relationship, instead of suffering, sitting back and contemplating about benefits that a breakup can bring

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