As a woman, I can encounter many advantages in life. Typically a man is expected to pay for the first date if one is request this entitles me to free food, a movie or such. Rewind to the part that I said “typically”. Two days ago I went on a date with a man, I did not get my coffee paid for. This is because, just because it is expected, it does not mean it will happen. As a female I have many privileges, not to argue that males do not have just as many. Many of these privileges go unnoticed at times. Today, I went to class wearing an “Iowa” baseball cap, male sweatpants, no make-up, and a loose fitting blue sweatshirt. The average person would not see anything wrong with my class attire. Imagine if a male went to class in attire opposite of that, he would be wearing a floppy hat, female yoga pants, make-up, and a tight-fitting pink sweatshirt. Most would have a different opinion and view on the way they he dressed and it would not be seen as normal. Pink is obviously for girls, right? That might be what an opposing view would think. In that case, blue is for boys. However, no one lo...
Young women around the U.S are being made to feel insecure in who they are as almost anything they wear is attacked. My own high school, Granby Memorial High School, just recently rescinded a new rule requiring that girl’s shorts and skirts are six inches from the knee or longer. The rule was rescinded after student protest when “The students were told the clothing was inappropriate for school and distracting to the male students and staff.” This misogynistic idea that a young woman’s education is not as important as a young man’s is disrespectful to young men by claiming they are unable to control themselves, and containing a concealed message that women are under men. As a young woman, seeing all the civil rights movements both in the U.S and in other countries, and being told that I am not as worthy or wanted as a man fills me with a passionate rage. We, as a country, fight for basic rights in other countries even though there are stigmas in the U.S that show women in the workplace as either secretary-like positions or women who have had to take on a “man-like” mindset in order to succeed in business. While some of these rules may be acceptable, short-shorts being banned, for example, the educational system needs to realize that with so many restrictions to dress code it would almost be better to have a uniform of nice pants and a shirt. An extremist might even say that these strict dress codes are leading towards victimization as men are not taught to control themselves so it is up to women to make sure that they are not in the position to be sexually assaulted or raped. Even if you are not an extremist, you can understand that these dress codes must change to be all inclusive. Some of the rules in states like California only allow skirts and dresses for girls when the U.S has stated that schools should be inclusive of all
to wear it all the time. Woman should never be treated less than men and it's annoying that
Nowadays women should be treated equally, but some very common stereotypes are still used. For example, in my last birthday, I received a gift from my friend in a pink bag. Then, I asked my friend, why he picked a pink bag, he simply replied "all women like pink," but actually he did not know that my favorite color was blue, and that does not mean that I am a boy. On another occasion, I was taking care of my little cousin, he began to play soccer, and when I asked him if I could play with him, he answered me, "not because girls do not know how to play football," his answer surprised me, so I take his soccer ball, and I showed him that he was wrong, because women can play different sports.
Have you ever been in a situation where you encounter a very attractive person in a social event? If you are a male you probably have to brush off your shyness to approach that person. On the other hand, if you are a woman you have to patiently wait for that attractive person to notice you and approach you so that you do not come on too strong. This is all part of the script, gender roles, that tells you how you should behave according to your gender. You might wonder who created this script? Elite white heterosexual males in power dominate the status quo, what is normal behavior for someone with your gender. The creation of gender roles and gender norms maintain a woman silent by the bar powerless waiting to be chosen. The fact that it is the norm for a man to approach a woman but deems the opposite as too desperate creates a disparity if you
Feminism has transferred an impact on the American society. Some of the benefits include restructured views on careers, schooling, and privileges women obtain. The women’s movement was the main triumphant movement of the 1960s and 1970s (Epstein 125). However, without the victory of the movement nothing would be the same as it is these days. In conclusion, women vision themselves differently now then what they did thirty years ago (Epstein 125).
Dress Codes are commonplace in today's society but in recent years, outrage at restrictive dress codes are increasing. A report by The Guardian illustrates an example of a restrictive dress code. Stephanie Hughes was called to the Principal’s office because the outfit she was wearing revealed her collar bones. Her outfit, comprising of a cardigan with a tank top underneath and jeans, was deemed as by her School Principal as inappropriate attire. The Principal explains that because her outfit revealed her collar bones, it would distract fellow male students and was hence not appropriate for school. Such dress codes only highlight the objectification of females, teaching males that while it is their responsibility to study, attaining poor scores can be explained as a result of distraction by the female students’ revealing clothes. Such dress codes teach males, in this case teenage boys, that they have the right to push the blame onto the females and shirk responsibility. While dress codes are tied to professionalism and etiquette, enforcing unreasonable dress codes that place emphasis on covering up the female body only ascertains the fact that Rape Culture is
Laura Bassett, a reporter from the Huffington Post, explains that in today’s society women are paid 77 cents for every dollar that a man earns, resulting in women being paid an average of $37,800 a year compared to men who are paid an average of $49,400 per year in 2012 (Women Still Earned 77 Cents On Men's Dollar In 2012: Report). Also, when a man and a woman apply for the same job, the man will almost always be chosen. This has resulted in the amount of full-time working males increasing by 1 million within a years time, and the number for full-time working women remained nearly the same. To this day, females are not treated equally to males even though almost a century has gone by from 1920 when women gained their deserved suffrage rights and other rights of equivalent importance. Both men and women are standing up to spread the awareness of the meager changes to women’s rights throughout the years. One way to raise awareness is to write a book, and many books have been made about the lack of equality rights for women. In the novel The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd, the main character Lily witnesses several equality rights between men and woman in the way that females are treated by males, which has become a major social issue in today’s society.
Us girls feel personally attacked by the dress code policies simply because even if so much as a centimeter of skin from under our jeans, or a portion of my bra strap is showing we get sent to the office and we are given the lecture of needing to keep a better image of ourselves, and being more conservative about our bodies. Well from coming from a girl's perspective, we feel like we have to bow down to the boys just because they think inappropriate thoughts if any part of a girls skin is showing. Well, we have society and adults to thank for this simply because when boys are caught doing something they aren't supposed to do or watch something they are not supposed to be watching, adults simply say, “Oh boys will be boys.”. Now adults have conditioned boys to think that thinking these thoughts is a way of life and that it is okay to think them just because they are boys. God made us girls the way we are for a reason, why are we letting guys discriminate us women in such a way that we basically have to dress like a boy in order to keep them from thinking these sinful
It 's a growth of the gender stereotypes, the expected actions rather than the expected preferences assigned by society. Though America is one of the more socially developed countries of the world, there are still things we classify as gender roles. Things like the expectation that a boy asks for a girls number or things like a woman will be the parent that stays home with the children while the husband is out there doing business and making money to bring back to the family. Things like the expectation women wear make up and are allowed to let their bodies slack and not be body conscious, while a man uses his natural look and must maintain a fit, attractive body. There are many social campaigns surrounding getting rid of the gender roles of “housewives” and “natural beauty.” These gender roles place an expectation that things will be a set way, however this causes an unbalanced scale between men and
First we need to examine the cases where this is present. Less obvious stereotypes are those of women. Women?s roles in society have changed throughout the times. Are the...
A women's role has changed tremendously and is making its greatest impact in our society today. Many years ago, women's contribution to society was limited and controlled by men. Women are standing tall and are playing a major role in many important areas. Women's role has changed at an accelerating rate and have part in areas such as Politics, Professional Training Jobs, Medicine,Business and Law. Formerly they were not part of any political matter, but they have advanced in many aspects. For example, women have attained power and have been growing in political office.
Who’s to say that just because you are male you have to act manly and if you are female you must be girly? Over the years, gender roles have had a dominant place in society, different families emphasizing different roles. Society places certain expectations on men and women, designating particular responsibilities to each.Throughout the years, society 's rules and expectations for men and women have changed, therefore, it 's important to know where gender roles come from and how they affect people because they play an important role in shaping the way we think about others in society.
In school females are told to cover up, not because a dress is too shirt, a shirt is too revealing but because it is a distracting for the males. In most High school cases, girls are subjected to unfair treatment. Many have been suspended for wearing ripped jeans, "Short" dresses for prom, tank/spaghetti strap shirts and for African American teens for their hair. While males are allowed to wear ripped jeans, shorts, tanks tops and can sometimes walk around topless. These incidents relating to either how a female is dressed or if a black teen wants to be natural and get punish for being themselves astonishes me. It is really boggles the mind that discrimination
The Role of Women in Society Women are important in our society. Every woman has her own job or duty in this modern society in which men are still the strongest gender. We can t forget that women s life is a lot more complicated than a man s life. A woman has to take care of her own personal life and if she is a mother, she has to take care also about her children s life, too. Marriaged women have lots of worries and believe it or not, they carry out a more stressful life than married men.
The role women play in today’s society is a drastic change from the previous role. Women used to be confined to the superiority of the man. Physically, mentally, and emotionally abused, belittled, embarrassed, and silenced. These are just a few examples of the emotion from the isolated treatment of the past. A woman’s role in today’s society is more valued than ever before.