Aunty Ifeoma Quotes And Analysis

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Throughout the book, I developed the idea that Papa’s expectations, rules, and strictness on Kambili, deprives her of having an outside social life. Kambili never has to solve a problem on her own, since she follows the rules; she can't think for herself. Papa treats her like she isn’t a kid, as if she was a mini adult that knew all the “right” answers. Kambili has the experience of living in Enugu, where she is silent and if she spoke up and said something wrong she is abused for it, however when she was in Nsukka with Aunty Ifeoma's family, she was coaxed into expanding her ideas and being forced to talk back. Now she has to chose between the two people she loves, Father Amadi and Papa. Even though she loves Papa he makes her feel unwanted …show more content…

Jaja and Kambili first discover freedom and joy there, and they don’t want to leave, finally seeing how different their family is from Ifeoma’s, realizing how unhealthy their own family is. Kambili is brought out of her silence shell, entering a new life in which she can be free to say what she want’s without being judged or abused. When she got to Nsukka, Aunty Ifeoma told Father Amadi that she “was worried about [Kambili], that she could not hold a conversation with even the children upstairs. But she didn’t ask me to take you [to the soccer field]” implying that it was purely Father Amadi’s choice to help her, he knew what was right and what needed to be done (280). Because of his influence Kambili “smiled, [ran] and laughed. [Her] chest was filled with something like bath foam. Light.” that being said, she finally overcame her fears showing that she can be strong and confident on her own (180). By the end of the book right before Father Amadi leaves for Germany, Kambili went up to him and said, “I love you” implying that over the course of the time at Aunty Ifeoma's, it transformed her into a person where she could express her feelings, making her feel more free and open (276). Kambili is finally finding value in herself from being with Father Amadi. I think the moment when she tells Father Amadi she loves him is important because he doesn't say I love you back directly, but in his letters later talks about her self-worth, maybe encouraging her to love herself first. He wanted to persuade Kambili into believing in herself and making sure she has her own opinion in life. By the end of the book, Kambili is freed by the combination of Amadi’s influence and Ifeoma's house in “Nsukka [which] could free something deep inside your belly that would rise up to your throat and come out as a freedom song. As laughter” (299). She loved the sensational feeling and “wanted to leave with Father

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