Abservation: What Did I Observe?

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1. What Did I Observe? From my first observation, I was located at my local Starbucks. It was a good day to go that day, because there was many different types of people there. I was able to see quite a few different types of interactions. I had noticed that I was also displaying nonverbal eye behavior while I was there. Such as, the use of scanning, which in the textbook states on page 92, “our eyes scan, focus, and collect information about the world around us” (Richmond, McCroskey, and Hickson 2012). I also noticed that I was not the only person that did that. Most of the costumers that walked in did that. I also exchanged the eye behavior of civil inattention with a Policeman. I watched the interaction between two friends, whom were woman. They were in mutual gaze pretty much most of their conversation and rarely would get out …show more content…

The journal is titled, Gaze Cueing Effect in a Face-to-Face Situation. When I had walked into the Starbucks and scanned the room, I noticed this man and he had noticed me. We were not that good of friends to say hi so it was just a civil inattention gaze, which is describing on page 95 as, “two people mutually present but not involved interaction” (Richmond, McCroskey, and Hickson 2012). I wanted to tell the person I was with, but I did not want it to be obvious so I used gaze cueing. According to, Lachat, Conty, Hugueville, and George, “Joint attention is a fundamental triadic interaction between an observer, another person, and an external object, by which the observer automatically aligns the direction of his/her attention onto that of the seen person, thus allowing both persons to attend to the same external object.” In this case the external object was the man and it worked. I was able to get the person attention over there and the other person looked at me to tell me that she had seen

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