Humorous Wedding Speech

Okay!!! I understand what we are going through with family and our marriage is stressful. However, I am trying my hardest to be understanding, compassionate, and communicative while I get NOTHING in return. I NEED something to hold on to here. You said you tried before – one day or week does not cut it. I have been working on this for a month now and I am going to keep trying to better us and myself. I want you, need you and love you!!!

You said you need to find yourself and I realize this will take time; however, you have me really worried about you and the progression of our marriage. You are not only jeopardizing your health and safety, but the safety of our children (Levi) and contributing to my stress/health as well. You need to do something

You NEED to get things of your chest, otherwise it will eat at you (trust me I know). You either need to talk someone outside of your circle, write it down or let me in. I REEEEALLLY love you and it sickens me to see you this way.

You are my life!! I know it hasn’t always seemed like it to you, but you are. You know the saying – “you never know what you have until it’s gone” – well I had that epiphany. I want you and ONLY you. However, with nothing being reciprocated, I feel you are only appeasing me. Is this what you are doing? Will you be going ahead with the divorce once Dennis passes? I pray this is not the case.

If we are moving forward with OUR marriage, we both HAVE to put effort into it. You have said something to the fact that “action speaks louder than words”; well, I have been showing you. I too would appreciate the same

I understand not just the “I love you’s” and the affection; you want to do more things outside the box. We can do these ourselves, seeing all your main friends are single now. Maybe take dance lessons or something; this way we can meet people. Yes! I will be uncomfortable, but I will manage. You are worth it!

I understand it is frustrating that I don’t trust you, even when you tell me the truth. It’s just hard because of all the lies before. It’s just like you trusting Josh – you don’t, even when he tells the truth. Just too many lies make it hard; however, like I have said before I have faith in YOU and us.

I KNOW I will trust you again – it will just take time; probably not a month or two, but I will/can get there. It can be done! Just don’t lie to me even about the little stuff – they add up. I may not like what I hear, but I would rather the truth and communication so we can work on the issue at hand. This way we will be on the same page whether it be about other women (not saying to go out and get one), sex, food, or whatever it may