In the morning of the 31st of May 2012, my son Kevin was born. I will never forget that moment when I first got to hold him, he was tiny, peaceful and innocent, just a perfect little boy. When I kissed his little forehead, I wanted the world to stand still, and keep this perfect moment frozen forever.
I am a single mother. I decided I wanted a child when I was 34 years old. I haven’t found the one by then and I was afraid I will never meet a man capable of being my one and only, the father of my children, my true love. Every little girl has this dream of meeting the perfect husband, having three beautiful children and a nice cozy home with a "welcome" mat in front door. I knew it was a little too late for me to make this dream become a reality, but I still didn’t want to give up the dream of being a mother. I always knew I wanted to be a mother, the matter of raising a child since youth, and being able to imply characteristics, and morals you think are important for a child growth always seemed like a fairytale. That’s why I didn’t let this little hurdle keep me down, I was still a healthy woman who had options, so I got pregnant using sperm donor. After the consultation with a doctor in the sperm bank regarding the most suitable way for me to get pregnant, which was the regular one, no IVF or surrogate needed; I received by email a list of about 7 potential sperm donors, and I had to choose one of them. It was very stressful because with each case you could find something that could possibly go wrong, eventually I found the perfect match; a law student with brown hair and hazel eyes who comes from a Spanish origin, no history of heart and brain diseases. From then on the month flew by and I gave birth to my little miracle.
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...n allergic reaction to air, maybe he was having a stroke, and maybe his heart was failing. Things that certainly weren't the cause of his symptoms, but worried mothers aren’t rational, and there is only one person that can calm a worried mother… the doctor!
The first thing I did was call the pediatrician and schedule a meeting as soon as possible, which fortunately was at 8am that morning, next thing I did was cancel work for the next few days. I prepared Kevin for the meeting, he was so tired and sick he barley talked and reacted to the world. We went straight away. When I come to think of it now, it wasn’t the best thing for me to drive, my mind was running scenarios of what can go wrong at the doctor's office. When we arrive the practice was empty we were the first patients of the day. We Entered Mr. Bar's office and he without even examining him had a diagnoses
...ach problems after eating and dizziness as well. If he was attempting to kill himself, why would he then complain about his sickness? He was a smart enough man to know that they would be happening.
In kilner’s case study “Having a baby the new-fashioned way”, present a story that can be relatable to a lot of families struggling to have a child. This is a dilemma that can be controversial and ethical in own sense. The couple that were discussed in the case study were Betty and Tom. Betty and Tom who are both in their early forties who have struggled to bear children. Dr. Ralph Linstra from Liberty University believes that “Fertility can be taken for granted”. Dr. Ralph talks about how many couples who are marriage may run into an issue of bearing a child and turn to “medical science” to fix the issue. He discusses that “God is author of life and he can open and close the womb”. That in it’s self presents how powerful God.
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The distress caused was most likely due to being at his only son’s funeral. Of course any loved one’s death would surely have an impact on someone's physical and emotional health.
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Two of the greatest days of my life were the days my daughters were born. The first time I held the both of them and gazed into their eyes I felt a sense of relief and hope. The feeling is a warm tingling sensation that engulfed my entire body. The emotions that I felt are beyond what words can explain. It’s amazing to me that in the first few minutes of their lives they completely changed my perception of the world.
Kids growing up who know their mother and father will never know the struggle that some kids go through that don’t. Some kids grow up never knowing who their real father is. Many parents face the decision on if they should tell their child that they have a sperm donor as a father (Provoost). Veerle Provoost interviewed many couples and children asking how they felt about the sperm donor and if they call him their child’s father or even if they have told their children who their real father is. Veerle Provoost tries to persuade the audience through her support, confidence and word choice that even though some families use sperm donation that doesn’t mean that their family is broken up or different. Provoost did a superb job during her speech on giving support on her research that she performed.
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Everyday, people are faced with choices. Some of life’s choices are simple, such as deciding what to wear to school or choosing a television station to watch. Other choices, however, are much more serious and have life-altering consequences. Being pregnant has many choices, whether or not to keep the baby. There are many choices such as adoption, or abortion. I decided that I would keep my baby because I knew in my heart that I would regret it in the long run if I didn’t. Throughout my pregnancy I suffered from depression, which is the condition of feeling sad or despondent mentally. My depression was mainly due to the fact that I was sixteen, alone, and scared, I was a waitress at a local restaurant, but that job couldn’t pay for all the financial needs it takes to raise a child. I left my baby’s father when all the arguing and physical abuse began. I couldn’t deal with that and I definitely wasn’t going to raise my child through it. Although I knew deep down that this big decision was for the best, it was still difficult and very painful. Just the thought of raising a child alone was scary. My parents were so disappointed in me they really didn’t have much to say, especially my mother. That made my pregnancy worse because I felt as though I had no one to talk to. I had friends to talk to but most of them didn’t understand what I was going through.
Imagine your six year old daughter; come to you to ask you “why did daddy leave us”? How do you explain? This is all too familiar to many families around the world, just so happened this is my story. The life of been a single mom is far too common today. Of all single-parent families in the U.S., it’s sad to say that single mothers are considered the majority. After a few life changing events, such as the divorce from my husband lead me to this positions now I found myself included into this majority. The one thing that I have realized since becoming a single parent is that the struggle is hard but manageable; and with every struggle I find a victory waiting on the other side. There are many obstacles that attach themselves to the role of a
September 14, 2011 was a very special day. My parents had been trying to conceive another child for 4 years, and it had finally happened. At the time I was 10, and I did not understand why our parents wanted another child. I was still trying to deal with my other two siblings, and now I would have to deal with three. My sister, Avery, was stoked at the thought of another sibling. She dreamed and prayed that it would be a baby girl. She was sick of trying to bribe me to play dolls with her, and needed a new companion to force into Barbie games. My brother, Brody, had no idea what was going on till my parents brought home a baby. He was the most oblivious 6 year old on the planet. My dad was the most excited. My mom and dad were unable to conceive
Sometimes, life creates unforgettable memories that you cherish, like our past, present and future. Being a single parent in the past, I cannot change it, but I can embrace the experience it has taught me. Meeting Mr. Right has taught me the true defection of love, and to respect my past experiences. I will truly honor my future and my precious time with my husband and our eternity of life moments. Today, I will share with you my, past as a single parent, my present with meeting Mr. Right, and my future life events.