Why do People feel good about doing good deeds?
When you think of good deeds what comes to mind? Do you really think about doing something good? Well, through experience, not many people in the world are nice. Trying to do good, is easier said than done. Why do we continue to do it though? Not everyone needs kindness to make their life happy. Some people just need money, and someone to provide for them, but what is our purpose in life? People constantly change and experience things, but sometimes it just takes one thing to change that all around. Through research we will answer this question, why do people feel good about doing good deeds?
First things first when we think of good deeds some research relate it to an impulse. In a 2007 experience of a worker named Wesley, he did something simple, out of impulse. A man had an epileptic seizure on train tracks, and fell down. Wesley heard the train and immediately ran and put his body over top of him. When asked by New York Times, he said “I just someone in need of help so I did what I felt was right.” According to psychologists there is no such thing as a “pure” altruism. (Steve Taylor). Altruism is the belief in or practice of disinterested and selfless concern for the well-being of others. Altruism can be a mistake, or a “leftover” trait from a close relative that makes you feel the need to do something good. When someone get this need or help others it makes them feel good, but then they can feel guilt too. It could be a result of moral qualities, but then again is it still considered “pure” altruism. The motivation for some is empathy. Some people have empathy for animals or even a spider. Some believe that “pure” altruism is from empathy and is the root of where it starts...
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... doing good can change how we do things for ourselves. Through rough experiences, or buying something for oneself can make them change their minds next time they have 20 dollars in their pockets.
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