Mother to Mother
The novel Mother to Mother created a controversy that brought to light the horrors of apartheid. The murder of Amy Biehl took place near the author’s residence, easily could have been her son involved. Sindiwe Magona describes a society suffering from violence and lack of education. Mandisi, mother of Mxolisi is directing a huge part of the blame for her son’s actions, on a society that did not give him many choices in life. She is not condoning her son’s actions for taking part in the murder of this young American woman but describing the life they must endure in a society that is under apartheid. She is implying that they as parents, the government, and society, have failed this generation.
This generation is angry, bitter,
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There was no welfare assistance program in place, and the only services provided were services that protected the white community. The tuberculosis clinic in Guguletu provided the necessary medicine free of charge to all of its residents. Not out of concern for the population that lived there, but because the white employers did not want one of their servants bringing this disease to their home. “The Boers are scared we will give it to them. Since our mothers work in their houses, if we all get TB, then they will get it too” (Magona 16). A decent welfare system would have avoided so many confrontations and provided some relief to an overburdened society. Magona describes through the eyes of Mandisi how congested Guguletu is. “A town filled with sad small houses that lean on each other for support. Streets filled with debris, pools of stagnant water infested with mosquitoes, and flies. From morning until night, ragged clothed children play in it” (Magona 27). What a dismal picture of daily existence in Guguletu. “South Africa is an upper-middle income country, but is a country of stark contrasts. The extreme inequality evident in South Africa means that one sees destitution, hunger and overcrowding side-by-side with affluence” (Woolard
No matter what actions or words a mother chooses, to a child his or her mother is on the highest pedestal. A mother is very important to a child because of the nourishing and love the child receives from his or her mother but not every child experiences the mother’s love or even having a mother. Bragg’s mother was something out of the ordinary because of all that she did for her children growing up, but no one is perfect in this world. Bragg’s mother’s flaw was always taking back her drunken husband and thinking that he could have changed since the last time he...
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...ther is losing her daughter to time and circumstance. The mother can no longer apply the word “my” when referring to the daughter for the daughter has become her own person. This realization is a frightening one to the mother who then quickly dives back into her surreal vision of the daughter now being a new enemy in a world already filled with evils. In this way it is easier for the mother to acknowledge the daughter as a threat rather than a loss. However, this is an issue that Olds has carefully layered beneath images of war, weapons, and haircuts.
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A single mother’s frustration, mami and her two son’s a Dominican family living in New York city try to cope with their mother being a single parent. Throughout the story the author uses many literary devices to capture how the characters feel in this rough time. Through the use of plot, theme, and tone readers can connect to the culture and feelings of the narrator.
As with many surface readings I have performed as a student of literature, however, my perspective on The Joys of Motherhood began to evolve. First, I realized and accepted Nnu Ego's failure to react against oppressive forces in order to bring about change for herself and the daughters of Africa; I consoled myself, reasoning that the novel still deserves the feminist label because it calls attention to the plight of the African woman and because its author and protagonist are female. Rereading the novel, however, also triggered the silencing of my initial response. I focused on such passages as the dying wish of Ona, Nnu Ego's mother, who implored Agbadi, Nnu Ego's father, ...