The Unpredictability of Life

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Life is unpredictable. It does not always bring happiness and gives us all that we want. Regardless how hard we try and how much we desire to move life according to our own direction, it does not move according to our wishes. In our life, we have to make important decisions. There are few decisions that give direction to our lives. So, in order to make these decisions it is imperative that all the rationale and logical factors should be taken into consideration. But, often, times come when we take decisions under the influence of others. In this family, relatives and friends play important role in my life. If i rewind my life, then, I can also think of various events where I made decisions under other people’s influence. We put on others that make us to follow and obey what others say to us our priority and value. One of the decisions that pinch the pain and dubiousness in my heart and mind is related to continue friendship with a friend at school. I still do not know whether I made that decision rightly or not but I often think about that. In my school, there was a boy who had no friend. He used to greet everybody but he did not have any real or close friend. This aspect of his has always made me to suspect his personality. One day I found him in the library and we started a conversation. After that, we often began to see each other in the library. Slowly and steadily, we became good friends. The feeling that was appearing in my heart that I am being a friend with someone who was alone used to make me feel delighted. When I became friend with that boy, it revealed to me that he was really lonely and painful. He badly needed someone to share all the things that he was suffering from. In the times of troubles, I was a supporter and...

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...n which situation. But, the fact can also not be ignored that there are forces that manipulate and influence the decision making power of an individual. In this regard, I would like to raise the question that in the circumstances and situation in which I was is it fair that other people exert that much pressure to take the decision of their choice? Is it all right that if a person is on wrong path so we do not talk or be friend with him? Is it not right that we should be friend with that individual and try to bring improvement in his life? Is it more important to listen to your parents and consider the wishes of your friends than the humanity? These are some of the questions that often pop up in my mind. These are the questions that have become the mystery of my life. I hope to find out the answers of these questions before the counting of my breaths come to an end.

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