The Promise Analysis

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The Consequences of Expectations In today’s society, men and women are constantly doing what others find acceptable yet ignoring what they truly desire. This is evident in Frank Pearce’s chapter, “Fatalism” in The Radical Durkheim and C. W. Mills’ chapter, “The Promise” in The Sociological Imagination as both men place great emphasis on the fact that our awareness of our everyday lives whether we are succeeding or failing affect how we behave and react to daily stressors (Mills 1959:1). However, Pearce’s Durkheimianism exceeds what Mills’ calls the “sociological imagination” by demonstrating that all walks of life suffer no matter their employment or social ranking, but in very different ways. Additionally, Pearce’s explanation on fatalism …show more content…

Unfortunately, this can result in suicide as individuals may feel that this is their only option if they want to break free from what modern society considers the “norm.” For example, I am regularly told by members of society that I need to get a good education, so that I can secure a well paying job, get married, and eventually have children. This is incredibly stressful, so I can see why men and women may feel that if they are unique and want a different lifestyle, suicide might be a valid choice even though I do not recommend it. FATALISM AND SLAVERY Pearce’s theory of fatalism effectively explains slavery by pointing out that slaves were usually born into a family of lower status, so they very quickly came to terms that their fate in the world and their personal experiences were bound to happen because of their misfortune. As a result, slaves continued to allow their masters to treat them as property with souls in order to survive in society (Pearce 2013:123). Sadly, their masters thought that their actions were acceptable, so they persisted to use …show more content…

For example, Pearce’s theory of fatalism allows us to understand these concepts and what we as human beings do to ensure we meet these goals. As we get older we begin to recognize that we are expected to find a mate, so that we can continue on our legacy through children. If we do not follow this plan we are disrupting what our future has in store for us (Mills 1959:2). Hence, if a married woman cannot have children she is viewed as failure in our modern society as “she cannot satisfy her desires or fulfil her natural function (or social role)” as a mother (Pearce 2013:127). Therefore, if she cannot be what society wants her to become then her husband cannot either as his sexuality cannot be fully completed through fatherhood (Pearce 2013:127). This is the dilemma of fatalism as men and women are forced into thinking that if they do not comply to their set gender roles then they are not truly a man or a woman. Consequently, both childless husbands and wives suffer in the process as they cannot adapt to what our culture requires of them (Pearce 2013:127). This immense amount of hardship can lead to a lot of tension in these marriages; thus, a greater likelihood of divorce (Mills 1959:5). Regrettably, this also means that infertile men and women may contemplate suicide as a way to end their suffering of having to be seen as an outsider

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