The Persian Carpet Characters

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Family, is yours problematic? No family is perfect, they all have problems. Some problems in the short story the “Persian Carpet” by Hanan Shaykh, were the conflicts between the mother and the father, the father and the kids, and between the mother and the daughter(protagonist/narrator). The “Persian Carpet” is a perfect story to observe the problems families go through.

Some families go through divorce, like the protagonist's’ mother and father did in the short story. The protagonist’s mother had threatened her husband that she would “pour kerosene over her body and set fire to herself if [the protagonist’s] father [didn’t] divorce her”. The narrator’s father had agreed to divorce his wife, because he was afraid that the mother would follow

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