The No Winners, No Losers Generation

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“Tro-phy; noun: A cup or other decorative object awarded as a prize for a victory or success” (Oxford Dictionary). Not too long ago, some well-meaning person or persons made a decision that would greatly impact today’s generation of kids. They decided that we needed to give all children a trophy for only simply participating. There became an unwritten rule that it was "wrong" to celebrate winning, because it would hurt the losers' feelings. Now days a team who goes undefeated in a youth sport will receive a trophy, but so will all the children who came in last place and did not win a single game. Society has spent so much time worrying about our children's self-esteem, or hurting their feelings that they have missed the boat on teaching them hard, but much needed life lessons. Participation trophies and praises are almost a given as children are constantly assured that they are winners, and this has become a fiery debate amongst parents and coaches. The “no winners, no losers” culture we are creating for this generation of kids is having negative life-long consequences in school and the workplace; however, it has not always been this way.
Trophies were once rare possessions — sterling silver or gold prized cups used for only earned special occasions. During the 1960s, trophies began to be mass-produced by the millions. They were advertised in catalogs to coaches, teachers, and sold in sporting-goods stores. It is appraised today that “trophy and award sales are now an estimated $3 billion-a-year industry in the United States and Canada” (Merryman). Not only are trophy sales extremely high but youth association’s also hand them out like crazy. “In Southern California, a regional branch of the American Youth Soccer Organization han...

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