The Differences Of Love In Romeo And Juliet

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Romeo and Juliet, one of Shakespeare’s most renowned works, tells the tale of two teenagers who, through chaos and hatred, fall into an illusion of love. Set in the city of Verona, the Montagues and the Capulets, two opposing families, suffer avoidable deaths when their two children, Romeo and Juliet, commit suicide. Romeo, the son of Montague, and Juliet, the daughter of Capulet, are infatuated by each other after briefly meeting at a party and are driven to desperation due to their family's dispute. The two share multiple romantic and intimate moments, yet it is outrageous to say that they truly reached what is considered to be “true love.” Love at first sight is merely an attraction based on appearance, conceived without ample knowledge …show more content…

Attraction is a superficial obsession, often concerning what a person finds ideal, physically. It is a relative of lust, as both are as deep as sexual desire, which does not encompass love. It can be someone’s body language, the way they carry themselves, or how they present themselves. In Romeo and Juliet’s case, the term “fatal attraction” comes to mind, not “true love”, which is usually the term associated with what the two felt. The difference is clear because of the fact that the majority of comments that the two make concern physical perfection and an idealization of the other. Both of these things concern what is on the surface, while love encompasses the person as a whole; it is not skin deep. An example of their idealization is Romeo’s, “But soft! What light through yonder window breaks? It is the East, and Juliet is the sun! Arise, fair sun, and kill the envious moon...See how she leans her cheek upon her hand! O that I were a glove upon that hand, that I might touch that cheek!,” (Act 2, Scene). Romeo speaks of how perfect and beautiful she looks, proving that what they had was a strong attraction, but not quite true love. They speak in entire monologues with various references to the other’s beauty, but none to their nature, or psychological makeup. Love is much more complex than what the other person is presented as, and it cannot be produced by mere sight. The question may arise, if they weren’t in love, why would they go to such extremes? Why place such priority on a mere attraction? Because this attraction gave them both something to escape to. Romeo, just heart-broken over Rosaline and known to be a Petrarchan lover, finds Juliet to fill the hole Rosaline left. Juliet, aware of the fact that she’s most likely going to marry Count Paris (a man she has no interest in), longs to marry someone she loves as well, and at the right time. She has no faith

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