The Construct of Self through the Influence of Others

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This article, Life as a Maid’s Daughter by Mary Romero, takes the reader through the life a girl named Teresa. She lived a unique life, because she was able to see the differences ways in which different races and social classes of people live in America. Teresa and her mother Carmen are lower class Mexican-Americans, and the people that Carmen is a maid for are upper-middle class white Americans. Throughout her life Teresa learns about different aspects of herself (i.e. race, social class, gender, and family) through interactions with her biological family and the families of the employers. Teresa learned about her race around the age of three through interactions with her family and the family of her mother’s employer. She found out early on that her language, Spanish, was seen to be inferior to that of the employer’s, English. Living with her mother’s white middle-upper class employer meant that Teresa had to follow their rules, which meant conforming to their culture and leaving hers behind. This can be seen when she played with the white children; they tried to teach Teresa to speak English because they lived in a monolinguistic culture and refused to assimilate with her, but she resented that and refused assimilate as well by refusing to call the pescado a fish. She loved her Hispanic culture so she refused to conform by creating two cultures that she lived in; one where she acted as the employers wished, and the other where she participated in her own culture and valued her own race. This can be seen by the way she follows the rules in the employer’s homes, and then quickly retreats into her Mexican heritage while with her family. There was never a clear moment when I began to learn about my race. I grew up in New Hamps... ... middle of paper ... ...we develop we also have the opportunity to move up or down on the social status ranking based on how supportive or unsupportive our parents were in raising us. Because Teresa had such a great support system from both of her families she was able to move up in social class and redefine her sets of moral, values, and norms. The social institution of family is the most important aspect in the success of an individual, which can be seen through the life of Teresa. Works Cited Jackson, A. P., & Brooks-Gunn, J. (2000). Single Mothers in Low-Wage Jobs: Financial Strain, Parenting, LLLLLLLand Preschoolers' Outcomes. Child Development, 71(5), 1409. Kourvetaris, A. G. (2009). Perspectives on ethnicity, gender and race and their empirical referents: a four-sided paradigm and critical review. International Review Of Sociology, 19(1), 127-146. doi:10.1080/03906700802613988

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