In her TED Talk titled “The power of vulnerability”, researcher Brené Brown examines human connection and its relation to vulnerability. She explains that society fails to fully embrace vulnerability, along with its positive and negative effects. By recognizing this shortcoming, we can work towards believing in our worthiness of love and belonging in order to become more wholesome, rounded individuals. The purpose of existence, according to Brown, is human connection. While there are various ways which this can seemingly transpire, true connection can only occur when one allows themself to display excruciating vulnerability, that is, to be truly seen by others. Vulnerability spurs not only shame and fear, but creativity, longing, and most
Connection: I felt I sense of connection to Tori Murden McClure because we are both
Mary Pipher’s “Writing to Connect” focuses on persuading its reader through personal experience, expert testimonies, and figurative language that his writing can change the world. At the end of the text, Pipher hopes that her reader believes that one’s words have value and can impact others.
In other words, to produce this ambition, we must take into account the affects that connections provide us. That being said, Butler voices that the ability to let ourselves become vulnerable, helps clarify our purpose of humanity, and while accepting the uncertainties, we abolish the isolation of ourselves while releasing our true, individual characteristics of what constitutes us as human.
A human being is a complicated entity of a contradictory nature where creative and destructive, virtuous and vicious are interwoven. Each of us has gone through various kinds of struggle at least once in a lifetime ranging from everyday discrepancies to worldwide catastrophes. There are always different causes and reasons that trigger these struggles, however, there is common ground for them as well: people are different, even though it is a truism no one seems to able to realize this statement from beyond the bounds of one’s self and reach out to approach the Other.
Words can make a great difference in people and how they face their challenges in lonely and desperate times of their life. An inspiration can be the simplest speech but when said at the right time and in the right place, it can have a massive impact. I experienced this feeling of lonesomeness in my life and with the help of a mentor I was able to put it behind me and most importantly learn a lesson from it, that may have never even crossed my mind. These experiences are the ones that build a person’s character and helps them grow in life. In order to be able to understand other people and build good connections, you have to be able to under-stand and connect with someone about what they are going through, and sometimes give them the help they need.
As human beings we long for a connection with other human beings and hope that the connection is positive and helps us overcome our fears and struggles. A very first step to connect with one another is to overcome the anxiety about our self-shame and start daring greatly.
Many people in the world get into an almost unbreakable routine, shielding themselves from the real world. We wake up, brush our teeth, go to school with the same people, go home, and do it all over again. Once there is a roadblock in the way, it forces us to step outside our shell and look at others views for a change. American mythologist, writer, and lecturer,Joseph Campbell once said,”We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.” It is the act of noticing others words and actions that will reshape our lives for the better. In “Secret Samantha” and “Sol Painting, Inc.” the authors suggest that observing someone else’s perspective and taking the time to understand others can be mankind's greatest
Few situations exist that can strip a person of their ability to influence their world as much as social desolation. In the words of Rudyard Kipling, “The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too h...
The framework question, “What do we owe to each other?”, addresses complex issues of human existence. No matter the response, the answer is subjective, related to one’s own personal experiences and their understanding of morality and inequality. Yet, an individual’s answer can be further influenced by academic study and helping others in need. Philosophy, theology, and service influence the understanding of the question, “What do we owe to each other?” by allowing one to explore problems of human morality, experience human connection through theology, and feel sympathy for others.
...Bishop doesn't clearly show the common ways people connect. In her poems she demonstrates a unique concept how people connect through vulnerability, how people fear of the unknown and fear of their true emotions. In sharing those fears and true emotions people connect in a deeper level. The idea that we open ourselves to tell someone what we feel or what has frightened us is a passage we open to show our true selves. Showing our true selves is an experience that will be forever ingrained in our memories, but be wise to whoever you choose to open up to.
Brene Brown’s TED Talk brought the audience through her realization that vulnerability is a necessity. Her talk was a perfect reminder of why vulnerability even exists and how it is incorporated differently in everyone’s life. The ability to access vulnerability is difficult as it a test of one’s eagerness to put themselves out their in the world. While it may seem impossible at the moment to expose themselves to the truth, it is even more rewarding than one expects. During a Skype session with Jeanine Minge she expressed that people’s lack of vulnerability, specifically during ethnography, there might be an attempt to hide from the world. Vulnerability, as Brene Brown says, is the key to joy, creativity, and love. If so, what are people so
When we sacrifice our time to help someone in need, whether it is a great or small need, we become a part of their life and can help alleviate heavy burdens. We feel good for looking outside ourselves and contributin...
One of our deepest needs as humans is to be valued. The need to be needed is often more powerful than the need to survive. Every one of us has a deep longing to write our signature on the world. As individuals, we are each equipped with unique gifts and talents to share with our family, our community, and our world. Nelson Mandela once said, "As we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others." When we open ourselves to become all that we were created to be, we allow those around us to be themselves, empowering them to be a unique individual and to use the talents they possess. It doesn't matter if we are brilliant, beautiful, or incredibly charismatic. We can make a difference by just being who we are. We simpl...
Vulnerability is like a smoke screen, in that we never see whats on the other side. We all put this smoke screen up in one way or another. I found Mrs. Brown's thoughts on vulnerability compelling, how it could be a tool or hindrance. Sometimes we need to clear the smoke and let people in to allow for a better relationship. Such as with a husband and wife for example.
People don't truly accept life for what it is until they've actually tasted adversity and went through those misfortunes and suffering. We are put through many hardships in life, and we learn to understand and deal with those issues along the way. We find that life isn't just about finding one's self, but about creating and learning from our experiences and background. Adversity shapes what we are and who we become as individuals. Yann Martel's Life of Pi shows us that adverse situations help shape a person's identity and play a significant role in one's lief by determining one's capabilities and potential, shaping one's beliefs and values, and defining the importance and meaning of one's self.